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10 Post author: James_Miller 09 October 2013 07:19PM

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Comment author: coffeespoons 11 October 2013 02:12:27PM *  1 point [-]

It strikes me that very little has been said about the costs to the parents of homeschooling.

Even if homeschoolers only spend a few hours a week teaching their children (and that assumes the children are motivated enough to teach themselves the rest), they still have to make sure someone is in the house with the children all the time, which requires either career sacrifices (unless they can work from home), or probably more money than private school would cost (childminders are very expensive).

Also, I'm not convinced that even the average gifted child would be motivated enough to learn everything they need by themselves. I expect that the total time a homeschooler would end up spending would be substantially more than a few hours per week, which would again require major career sacrifices.

Finally, it can be very draining for a lot of parents to be around their children all the time. Often parents find having jobs outside the home to be a welcome break from childcare.

Comment author: Vaniver 11 October 2013 03:35:05PM *  1 point [-]

It strikes me that very little has been said about the costs to the parents of homeschooling.

Indeed. But the primary reason I haven't mentioned the costs when recommending homeschooling is because the costs are nearer to James_Miller than the benefits. If he's going to overestimate the costs or benefits of homeschooling, it's more likely that he'll overestimate the costs- and so it makes sense to focus on the the benefits.

It also works as a door-in-the-face: well, if you aren't willing to devote full-time employment to your child's education, then surely private school is a bargain?