If it's worth saying, but not worth its own post (even in Discussion), then it goes here.
Not this again... The guy's definition of selfishness is probably narrower than yours, so start the spat from there :)
I'd search a thread where I actually defended the "selfishness is wrong" position, but I can't find it, because the search function doesn't seem to work anymore.
Given "the need for "closure" is an extremely selfish desire" it doesn't look like his definition is improbably narrow :-/
Also note that we are talking about desires, not actions.