I've considered it, but I figure that the value of having it outweighs this. I don't see it as something that is strong enough to draw too many people away from the site. Maybe it'd be a good idea to remove it from the front page though to be safe. What do you think?
Removing it from the front page could certainly get you a few visitors who stay longer than to read that, react with "huh, guess this is not a classy site" or whatever, and leave.
For the record, I don't think it should be insulting that people care about appearance. I wish I didn't care about it, but I do (it isn't fair because it's not something you can control. however, pretending that you don't care is poor instrumental rationality). I get the sense that it's human nature, and you can't really help it. That's not to say that you think someone has some sort of lower "worth" if they aren't as attractive. It's just to say that more attractive people => better chances of finding a girl/boyfriend, and more fun hooking up. It has nothing to do with respect or social/intellectual interaction, just romantic/lustful.
Of course it's simply true that people are interested in the physical attractiveness of other people. Declaring that fact insulting is a nonsensical thing to do. It's the choice (not on this one isolated occasion, of course, but in the context of millions and millions of other such choices constantly made in the media etc) of the "hot" and "girls" framing of your understanding of this point that rankles, and may well rankle with others. Of course it's the women who are evaluated for their hotness, not the men. Of course hotness is chosen to evaluate them. Of course they're referred to using the term "girls". Because it's that way all the time. You'll tell me that it has to be like this, because that's how college-aged men speak and think. Pity you'll gain some people who speak and think like that and lose some who don't, in my opinion.
My motivation behind this post stems from Aumann's agreement theorem. It seems that my opinions on startups differ from most of the rationality community, so I want to share my thoughts, and hear your thoughts, so we could reach a better conclusion.
I think that if you're smart and hard working, there's a pretty good chance that you achieve financial independence within a decade of the beginning of your journey to start a startup. And that's my conservative estimate.
"Achieve financial independence" only scratches the surface of the benefits of succeeding with a startup. If you're an altruist, you'll get to help a lot of other people too. And making millions of dollars will also allow you the leverage you need to make riskier investments with much higher expected values, allowing you to grow your money quickly so you could do more good.
A lot of this is predicated on my belief that you have a good chance at succeeding if you're smart and hardworking, so let me explain why I think this.
Along the lines of reductionism, "success with a startup" is an outcome (I guess we could define success as a $5-10M exit in under 10 years). And outcomes consist of their components. My argument consists of breaking the main outcome into it's components, and then arguing that the components are all likely enough for the main outcome to be likely.
I think that the 4 components are:
The Idea
Your idea has to be for a product or service (I'll just say product to keep things simple) that creates demand, and can be met profitably. In other words, make something people want (this article spells it out pretty well).
What could go wrong?