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Comment author: Lumifer 23 January 2014 08:09:09PM *  5 points [-]

I am not particularly interested in debating whether the Red map matches the territory well or not, but note that in your post you make strong claims -- that Red techniques succeed only "by chance" and even that temporary success "will eventually lead to suboptimal outcomes". Beware of the Typical Mind fallacy.

Comment author: ESRogs 24 January 2014 01:54:37AM 0 points [-]

Did the sides in this debate suddenly switch in these last two comments? I thought you were both making really good points above, and then got lost here at the end. :P Oh well, I gave y'all some upvotes.

Comment author: Lumifer 24 January 2014 02:13:03AM 0 points [-]

Did the sides in this debate suddenly switch in these last two comments?

Maybe? :-) I think we were discussing the issue, not defending fixed positions.

Comment author: ESRogs 24 January 2014 02:25:01AM 1 point [-]

Fair point :)

Comment author: Ishaan 26 January 2014 06:01:59AM *  -1 points [-]

My last comment was referring to things in general, rather than the Red/Blue issue

  • L had pointed out that there is a subset of people for whom Red works well

  • I said that Red, Blue, etc... referred to models of reality, and the accuracy models should be judged by the evidence supporting those models, rather than the apparent usefulness of the associated techniques. (Example: If someone said aspirin cured headaches by chasing away evil spirits, we shouldn't take the fact that aspirin cures headaches in a subset of cases as evidence that there are evil spirits being chased away.) I further said that making this mistake would lead to sub-optimal outcomes.

  • L pointed out that what is sub-optimal for me is not necessarily sub-optimal for others.

I also agree with L's assertion that neither of us is defending a fixed position, though I don't think that was the reason for your confusion?

Comment author: Ishaan 26 January 2014 05:48:15AM *  -1 points [-]

temporary success "will eventually lead to suboptimal outcomes". Beware of the Typical Mind fallacy.

Just to clarify, by "sub-optimal outcomes" I didn't mean that you'll end up unhappy in your romantic relationships (which I agree would be a case of typical mind fallacy). I was referring to sub-optimal outcomes in domains unrelated to sexual strategy.

Also to clarify, the "by chance" refers to the general case of theories which come up with techniques that sometimes work for reasons that may or may not be what the theory says, not to Red/Blue specifically.

To give a crude example, flashing a Rolex, keys to a Lamborghini, or talking about your private jet is an excellent signal to "induce attraction" from a very specific kind of females. If you're interested in this specific kind it's a good technique. If you're not, it's not.

If you mistakenly model all women as identical to this specific subset and behave accordingly, you'll create sub-optimal outcomes in a global sense. (For example: What does having this model mean for how you treat women colleagues, coworkers, or students? How you treat daughters?)...note that the Red I've experienced does advocate that its model is true in the general case, rather than for a specific subset (they even have a name for it - "AWALT - All Women Are Like That")

Of course, you could still argue that "optimal outcome" in this domain is specific to who you are...but typical mind fallacy doesn't matter with respect to terminal preferences and values. I don't want a society where people are treated that way, especially not from a young age.

But in general, stepping back from this issue specifically...I just think it's bad epistemic hygiene to judge models by the apparent usefulness of the techniques which they suggest, especially when the fact that the technique is effective was well known before the model was generated.

Comment author: Lumifer 26 January 2014 06:28:46AM 3 points [-]

.I just think it's bad epistemic hygiene to judge models by the apparent usefulness of the techniques which they suggest

I disagree. I think that judging models by the success of their forecasts in empirical reality is precisely how they should be evaluated.

Comment author: Ishaan 26 January 2014 07:35:53AM *  -1 points [-]

Why? Doesn't that mean you'll end up accepting all manner of placebo and frequently misunderstand the reason that something works?

forecasts

You're mis-paraphrasing "forecasts", where I just said "techniques" in general. I think the distinction between pre and post hoc is important here.

If they are actually forecasts (as in, the prediction was made after making the model) then it does lend some credence...but if the model was made post-hoc of seeing certain techniques work and observing certain trends, as is the case with most of what we are talking about, it's another matter entirely.

Comment author: Lumifer 26 January 2014 05:07:52PM 2 points [-]

Doesn't that mean you'll end up accepting all manner of placebo and frequently misunderstand the reason that something works?

The fact that I want to judge models by their effectiveness in the real world does not imply that I have to be stupid about it.

If they are actually forecasts

The Red models make forecasts: they tell you what to do and what results to expect, all in the future.

but if the model was made post-hoc of seeing certain techniques work and observing certain trends

That's usually called historical data on which the model is based (or fitted) :-)

But is it your contention that Red techniques (regardless of whether the underlying Red models are correct or not) actually work? You seem to have been saying that they don't.

Comment author: Ishaan 26 January 2014 06:04:22PM *  -1 points [-]

We all try to be stupid about it, but all sorts of biases will begin coming into play with nebulous criteria like that.

A model based on historical data becomes more trustworthy once it makes a prediction in a novel scenario. If the Phlogiston model tells you to predict that fire goes out when airflow is restricted, it doesn't increase the model's impressiveness because Becher knew that fact before he made the model.

You seem to have been saying that they don't

Yes, I was sort of saying that earlier when I was talking about generalities. But I am also in agreement with your previous statement, that they work for a subset of people who have certain goals.

Comment author: Lumifer 26 January 2014 06:10:36PM *  3 points [-]

We all try to be [I assume there is a missing "not" here] stupid about it, but all sorts of biases will begin coming into play.

That looks like a general argument against any kind of empirical testing.

once it makes a prediction in a novel scenario.

You join the Red team, go out to a bar, meet a girl you've never seen before. That is a novel scenario -- the alternative is to accept that the Red techniques work because of biological imperatives hardwired into all human females, something I think you'd be loath to do.

And not to accuse you of rationalist sins, but do you think there is some motivated cognition going on?

Comment author: Ishaan 26 January 2014 09:31:58PM *  0 points [-]

You join the Red team, go out to a bar, meet a girl you've never seen before. That is a novel scenario -- the alternative is to accept that the Red techniques work because of biological imperatives hardwired into all human females, something I think you'd be loath to do.

Red Theory: Go to the bar wearing a suit and rolex because it signals wealth and status, find a girl and take her home. Make an advance. She'll act reluctant at first, but she's just testing your dominance so you should make another attempt later on. She'll rationalize it later in the morning - you have to provide plausible deniability, so she can pretend that "it just happened" and enjoy herself without feeling like a slut. She'll be attracted to your willingness to assert your desire.

Blue Theory: The display of wealth did catch her eye - she was raised in a traditional manner and wanted to settle down with someone who could provide, and she'd always had a thing for suits. However, once she got back to your place, the woman really didn't want to, but she felt awkward, was alone with a strange man, and was too tipsy to make good decisions. She just wanted to get the situation over with and go home. She regretted playing along with it and not giving a more clear denial the next morning. Her self esteem lowered as a result of the encounter.

The above scenario plays out repeatedly in clubs and bars everywhere. Same sequence of events, and same predictions about what will happen...but very different underlying models of what is happening. Why should Red get to be the privileged hypothesis about what's really going on here? Especially when Blue seems more in line with what people say they have experienced in such situations?

(Also, "a technique produces the results it has produced in the past" is not the same as "empirical testing of a hypothesis")

Comment author: Lumifer 26 January 2014 11:08:09PM 2 points [-]

once she got back to your place, the woman really didn't want to

What exactly did she go "back to your place" for? What were her expectations at the moment she said "OK, let's go to your place"?

same predictions about what will happen

Really? That just casts women as helpless powerless victims. Sure you want to go in that direction?

Why should Red get to be the privileged hypothesis about what's really going on here?

So, what's the Blue hypothesis? Why did the woman go back to his place? Why did she consent? Which falsifiable (in the Popperian sense) assertion about what really happened can Blue make?

Blue seems more in line with what people say they have experienced in such situations?

You know about selection bias, right?

Comment author: Ishaan 27 January 2014 12:32:22AM *  -1 points [-]

Really? That just casts women as helpless powerless victims. Sure you want to go in that direction?

Sort of, yes. I think a large segment of humanity (women and men) are hopelessly unable to assert their own preferences, and if an assertive person tells them to do something, they just sort of...go along with it. This is even more apparent when alcohol is added to the mix. You don't even need to go so far as the Milgram experiment - humans are shockingly (pun intended) compliant to much weaker forms of authority. The aversion to conflict can override a lot of other preferences. It's kind of disappointing, but that's just how humans are.

And that's before you add in complications relating to impulse control and people's short term vs. long term preferences.

However, it's not really victimhood I'm describing here - what I described isn't quite at the point where I'd call it a crime scene. I'd say it's primarily a mis-communication of preferences between two parties, fueled by hyper-assertiveness on one end and conflict-aversion on the other.This is the reason that feminists advocate much stronger forms of communication and consent.

selection bias

Yes, but it would be foolhardy to ignore available evidence in favor of some hypothetical speculation about what the evidence that slips my notice might be. In any case, this seems like the sort of scenario where I'd advocate everyone err on the side of caution by making sure to get verbal consent in the absence of strong, insistent application of social pressure, and most importantly to take reluctance at face value.