I am far from an expert in these matters, but would advise against both teasing back and saying explicitly that you interpret the teasing as "treating me worse than usual".
[EDITED to add: To be clear, I mean "don't do both of these together" rather than "both of these are individually bad ideas".]
Why not both? What could go especially wrong?
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