Here's an intervention, rather than a test: If she says something that hurts your feelings again, just say, "I know you're joking around, but that kind of hurts my feelings."
Instead of informing your model, inform hers.
That is a simple and worthwhile point of view. It made me change my mind, as per comment above, so upvoted!
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