As someone who has been on both sides, "just show up and introduce yourself" has been good every time so far.
That'll work fine at my local meetup.
One tip: If there's a mailing list / Google Group / Meetup.com group / etc., get on it, so you can see topic announcements and contact info for the organizers.
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