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Raythen comments on Cognitive Biases due to a Narcissistic Parent, Illustrated by HPMOR Quotations - Less Wrong Discussion

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Comment author: Raythen 26 May 2014 09:07:53PM *  0 points [-]
  1. Having high self-awareness of his strengths and weaknesses as a salesman

That's not at all the same thing as having high self-awareness overall

  1. Understanding people well enough to sell to them

Which may well be not very well at all. Understanding people in the context of sales is not the same as understanding then generally.

  1. Accurately perceiving reality (understanding physics, peoples' motivations, how to drive to work, how to not act crazy, etc.).

Which most people do. (though actually an accurate understanding of neither physics nor people's motivations is required to get by). I was taking about the "litany of Tarsky"-esqe desire to always seek the truth, even if unpleasant and emotionally painful to learn - which Harry has and very few people generally do.

Comment author: Algernoq 26 May 2014 09:31:07PM 3 points [-]

If you read a list of narcissistic traits, you will see that self-awareness, understanding others, and desire to know the truth are not there. In other words, a narcissist may or may not be self-aware, understand others, or want to know the truth.

Harry is self-aware but is also self-obsessed, understands people but is also selfish, and accurately perceives science but is also grandiose.