It really is, though. There is a large difference between looking down upon a behavior, and punishment (public shaming or whatever else, though the first is particularly distasteful). (Not that there has been a clear consensus on the topic*, anyways. I, for one, can see circumstances under which it is warranted, and circumstances under which it's not. Of course, once there's an official policy on it, I'd defer to that.)
There is plenty of behavior I observe every day (in "real life") which I look down upon / which is generally looked down upon. That is not at all the same as those people being fined / thrown in jail / whatever analogue you envision.
* Case in point: This discussion exists.
I, for one, can see circumstances under which it is warranted
Go on
Below is a message I just got from jackk. Some specifics have been redacted 1) so that we can discuss general policy rather than the details of this specific case 2) because presumption of innocence, just in case there happens to be an innocuous explanation to this.
So... thoughts? I have mod powers, but when I was granted them I was basically just told to use them to fight spam; there was never any discussion of any other policy, and I don't feel like I have the authority to decide on the suitable course of action without consulting the rest of the community.