Meet-ups have resorted to clip-on notes whether hugging is ok with that person.
That doesn't tell you everything there to know about hugging. There are still issues like the length of the hug that isn't fixed by the rules.
Especially in a community of munchkins you don't want to allow people to game the rules by moving exactly within them but violating their spirit.
Below is a message I just got from jackk. Some specifics have been redacted 1) so that we can discuss general policy rather than the details of this specific case 2) because presumption of innocence, just in case there happens to be an innocuous explanation to this.
So... thoughts? I have mod powers, but when I was granted them I was basically just told to use them to fight spam; there was never any discussion of any other policy, and I don't feel like I have the authority to decide on the suitable course of action without consulting the rest of the community.