One person's pedantry is another person's dickishness. One person's nitpicking is another person's "what a jerk". One person's pruning the weeds is another person's harassment. We all frequent social spaces all the time. You say the basic rule of all social spaces was "don't be a dick", and yet ... which is fine, some situations call for decisive signals (which may include "being a dick").
I've always appreciated the no-sugar-coating clear feedback signals this community sends, while others have bemoaned exactly that. I don't see signals using provided feedback mechanisms as out of bounds, absent a clear rule.
Well yeah, but that's why it requires discussion. (More "constitutional article" than "rule", maybe.) OTOH, this appears to be the sort of behaviour that causes new rules, and may cause retrospective ones.
Below is a message I just got from jackk. Some specifics have been redacted 1) so that we can discuss general policy rather than the details of this specific case 2) because presumption of innocence, just in case there happens to be an innocuous explanation to this.
So... thoughts? I have mod powers, but when I was granted them I was basically just told to use them to fight spam; there was never any discussion of any other policy, and I don't feel like I have the authority to decide on the suitable course of action without consulting the rest of the community.