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lincolnquirk comments on Bragging Thread, June 2014 - Less Wrong Discussion

14 Post author: Viliam_Bur 08 June 2014 10:08AM

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Comment author: lincolnquirk 08 June 2014 11:03:06PM 28 points [-]

I met an awesome girl who was single that I really liked, and followed the classic steps (1- be attractive; 2- don't be unattractive) correctly, and she liked me too!

I realize this sounds kind of trivial (especially since I've dated several attractive people in the past), but the reason it seems like an accomplishment worth bragging about was that I have never previously had a self-conception as an attractive person. I could always explain why others chose to date/sleep with me without needing to believe that I was actually attractive. But I have worked for several years on increasing my attractiveness (gym, social confidence, body language, posture, conversation skills, haircuts) and I am now starting to believe it, a little bit. Also I'm older, that probably helps too.

Comment author: [deleted] 09 June 2014 04:42:56PM 4 points [-]

the classic steps (1- be attractive; 2- don't be unattractive)

Not necessarily in that order.