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Lumifer comments on Open thread, 16-22 June 2014 - Less Wrong Discussion

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Comment author: Lumifer 20 June 2014 01:53:26AM *  4 points [-]

What sort of things do you think experts (professors, generally) might value that a less-expert person like myself might be able to offer?

Lots of things, of course: adoration, bacon, sexual favors, etc. etc. :-D

In practice, I suspect that some attention, gratefulness, and a demonstration that you're not a clueless idiot with some agenda will go a long way towards making the expert willing to answer your questions. The last part is the problematic one in online communications -- by default you're just "another guy from the internet" and we all know what the average of that looks like.

However something in this vein seems like not a bad start to me: "Dear Professor X, I read your papers/books Y and Z and was amazed how you figured out A, B, and C. However I have a question about D because while E it seems to me that F." Demonstrate cluefulness and use flattery :-)

P.S. Another important issue is scope. Ask questions that can be concisely answered in a couple of paragraphs. Do not ask questions the answers to which are a graduate degree, a shelf of books, and a really tall stack of printed-out papers (e.g. "What should I eat for health and fitness?").

Comment author: Qiaochu_Yuan 22 June 2014 06:49:55PM *  3 points [-]

I get people emailing me math questions every once in awhile. I never answer them (I strongly prefer to answer math questions in a public forum like Quora or StackExchange), but some of them are at least tempting. I am actively turned off by any attempt on their part to use flattery, and those are never tempting. It always sounds fake to me. (Also, some of them call me a professor on accident and that's annoying too.)

Comment author: [deleted] 22 June 2014 07:43:48PM 2 points [-]

I am actively turned off by any attempt on their part to use flattery

Same here.

(Also, some of them call me a professor on accident and that's annoying too.)

Journals will call me professor on accident and it's also incredibly annoying.

Comment author: satt 22 June 2014 10:38:07PM 0 points [-]

(I strongly prefer to answer math questions in a public forum like Quora or StackExchange)

Though in this case iarwain1's questions aren't "the type that [...] can get answers by posting on Quora or even specialty forums", at least in their own judgement.

I am actively turned off by any attempt on their part to use flattery, and those are never tempting. It always sounds fake to me. (Also, some of them call me a professor on accident and that's annoying too.)

As another data point, I'm open to (mild, proportional) flattery but am also annoyed when people call me a professor by accident (it compels me to point out I'm not a professor, and demonstrates a lack of the cluefulness Lumifer refers to).

Comment author: iarwain1 20 June 2014 05:55:46PM 1 point [-]

Thanks!