The default is a neutral position, no respect but no disrespect either.

You're quibbling between "disrespectful" and "lack of respect".

If you look at the top right corner of your browser window, there is probably a little X there. Just click it.

The issue at hand is whether Less Wrong aspires to be anything more than a clique that panders to the in-group and provides no recourse to those who feel marginalized, other than leaving. I see you vote "no".