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Nothing in what you've said previously articulates any kind of difference in the structure of what you value from mine, and you seem to be using "difference in values" as a stopsign.
If you want to tap out, say so and I will drop the point entirely, but I think the reason you have given is disingenuous and want to find out what your real objection is. I'm not wedded to this position; it was a throwaway remark that I am defending because I don't see any reason to reject it. If you have principled reasons to reject this social rule, which would cause discomfort with the status quo and as far as I can tell therefore push society further toward a Pareto optimum, please tell them to me.
The exchange "I think I'm OK with that, on balance" -- "I think I'm not OK with that, at all" does not count..?
No, I use it in its literal meaning. Differences in values certainly exist and are quite common.
Think about it. What does "social rule" mean? Who sets it? Who contr... (read more)