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Comment author: NancyLebovitz 16 September 2014 03:36:15PM 8 points [-]

I have a notion that an FAI will be able to create better friends and lovers for you than actual humans could be. Family would be a more complex case if you value the history as well as the current experience.

I'm not talking about catgirls-- if some difficulties in relationships are part of making relationships better in the long haul, then the FAI will supply difficulties.

If people eventually have relationships with FAI-created humans rather than humans generated by other means, is this a problem?

Comment author: Gunnar_Zarncke 17 September 2014 09:55:25AM *  5 points [-]

See also EYs Failed Utopia #4-2

FAI-created X ... is this a problem?

I'm not sure we can extrapolate this currently. If we knew more, thought faster... maybe.

For me this means that one contraint on FAI is that it may not perform changes arbitrarily fast. Too fast for humans to react and adapt. There must be a 'smooth' trajectory. Surely not the abrupt change suggested in Failed Utopia.

Comment author: shminux 16 September 2014 06:22:22PM 4 points [-]

Let's first separate sexual aspects from the need for other companionship. Suppose everyone gets their sexual needs, if any satisfied by catgirls+ (+ for the upgrade which includes relationship problems if necessary). If you have a crush on your coworker (or your sibling, ew!), just add a catgirl copy of them to your harem.

Further suppose that the reproduction aspect is also taken care of.

Now you have a race of essentially asexual humans, as far as human-to-human interactions go.

The question is, does it make sense to have friendbots? What, if anything, is lost when you switch from socializing with meat humans to socializing with simulated ones?

Comment author: Azathoth123 17 September 2014 04:11:19AM 5 points [-]

Suppose everyone gets their sexual needs, if any satisfied by catgirls+ (+ for the upgrade which includes relationship problems if necessary). If you have a crush on your coworker (or your sibling, ew!), just add a catgirl copy of them to your harem.

This strikes me as superstimulating. In particular, the more cat girls you have, the more and kinkier cat girls you want.

Comment author: shminux 17 September 2014 04:22:04AM *  1 point [-]

Not necessarily, Plenty of people are happy with vanilla sex (or without). I suspect that even the kinkiest ones out there also have their limit. If not, let's talk about those who do.

Comment author: Azathoth123 17 September 2014 05:19:42AM 3 points [-]

That's because vanilla sex isn't as stimulating. The more superstimulating something is, the more experiencing it causes you to want more of it.

Comment author: Lumifer 17 September 2014 03:50:48PM *  2 points [-]

The more superstimulating something is, the more experiencing it causes you to want more of it.

That doesn't seem to be the case, see e.g. yummy food.

I think you're confusing "stimulating" and "addictive".

Comment author: gjm 19 September 2014 02:52:44PM 1 point [-]

vanilla sex isn't as stimulating

For people who are into one or another variety of kink, or would be if only they knew about it / were prepared to try it. I don't think it's obvious that that's everyone.

Comment author: shminux 17 September 2014 03:37:53PM 0 points [-]

That "explanation" is easily falsified. There are plenty of people who tried kinkier sex, enjoyed it, but reverted back to vanilla. There are plenty of people who tried roller-coasters once or twice but decided it's too much "stimulation".

Comment author: Azathoth123 19 September 2014 03:35:38AM 4 points [-]

There are plenty of people who tried kinkier sex, enjoyed it, but reverted back to vanilla.

Different people have different thresholds. If I remember the study correctly, none of the rats that tried directly stimulating their pleasure center ever went back.

Comment author: shminux 19 September 2014 05:51:53AM 1 point [-]

Rats != people...

Comment author: Azathoth123 19 September 2014 05:59:41AM 2 points [-]

Yes, well it would be unethical to repeat that experiment with people.

Comment author: Jodika 19 September 2014 09:29:30AM 2 points [-]

People, however, (as shminux said) do try kink all the time. It would not be unethical to do a study on people who are already kinky and see if they get kinkier over time.

Anecdotally, they start doing kink, they either decide it isn't for them and stop, or they do get kinkier for a while - because they're exploring what they like and it makes sense to start at the less extreme end of things.

Then they figure out what they like, which is often a range of things at differing levels of 'kinkiness/extremeness', and do that.

I mean, it's almost trivially obvious that compared to the size of the kink community, there is an almost negligible amount of people doing the human equivalent of directly stimulating their pleasure centres to the exclusion of everything else. They tend to make the news. The moderately kinky majority do not.

Comment author: Tripitaka 29 September 2014 10:05:01AM -1 points [-]

Well, there have been experiments on humans. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pleasure_center#Human_experiments

At its most frequent, the patient self-stimulated throughout the day, neglecting personal hygiene and family commitments. >A chronic ulceration developed at the tip of the finger used to adjust the amplitude dial and she frequently tampered with >the device in an effort to increase the stimulation amplitude. At times, she implored her to limit her access to the >stimulator, each time demanding its return after a short hiatus. During the past two years, compulsive use has become >associated with frequent attacks of anxiety, depersonalization, periods of psychogenic polydipsia and virtually complete >inactivity.

Comment author: Lumifer 16 September 2014 06:34:30PM 8 points [-]

Let's first separate sexual aspects from the need for other companionship

It's not self-evident to me that they are separable.

Comment author: hyporational 17 September 2014 03:52:37PM 2 points [-]

When my heterosexual male friends tell me companionship isn't about sex I ask them how many male companions they've had. Not many, I've gathered from the silence.

Comment author: Lumifer 17 September 2014 04:00:06PM 5 points [-]

how many male companions they've had.

For hetero males the usual term for male companions is "close friends". I bet the great majority have some.

But go ask some hetero women whether they think sex and companionship are well-separable :-/

Comment author: Azathoth123 19 September 2014 03:37:26AM 6 points [-]

Also I get the feeling 21th century Americans have fewer close friends than the historical human norm.

Comment author: Lumifer 19 September 2014 05:33:37AM 2 points [-]

I don't know what the "historical human norm" is and I suspect there is a lot of variation there.

Comment author: Azathoth123 20 September 2014 08:02:41PM 3 points [-]

Try reading literature written before the past 50 years and preferably before the 20th century. That will give you an idea.

Comment author: Lumifer 21 September 2014 12:43:32AM 3 points [-]

Try reading literature written before the past 50 years and preferably before the 20th century.

I am afraid Victorian England is not all that representative of the historical human norm.

Comment author: Azathoth123 23 September 2014 03:22:47AM 4 points [-]

I wasn't primarily thinking of Victorian England. Also "before the 20th century" isn't just the 19th century.

Comment author: hyporational 17 September 2014 04:07:33PM *  2 points [-]

In Finnish the connotations of "companion" are more obviously sexual I see, at least in my circles.

Comment author: Lumifer 17 September 2014 04:16:24PM 3 points [-]

It's probably a language issue, in standard English the word "companion" has no sexual overtones.

More to the point, this subthread is explicitly about separating sex from companionship.

Comment author: EStokes 20 September 2014 02:45:55PM 0 points [-]

Ah, but it's quite likely that they're heteroromantic as well as heterosexual.

Comment author: hyporational 20 September 2014 04:14:29PM 1 point [-]

Perhaps, but why haven't I come across any homoromantic heterosexuals or heteroromantic homosexuals?

Comment author: EStokes 20 September 2014 04:21:00PM *  1 point [-]

AFAIK people with mismatched romantic and sexual orientations, though very much existent, are quite rare and the -romantic terms are most often used by asexual spectrum people to describe their romantic preferences.

Comment author: hyporational 20 September 2014 04:31:17PM 2 points [-]

Asexuals with romantic orientations came across my mind too. I can't imagine romantic and sexual orientations as separate, but the stakes aren't high enough for me to commit the typical mind fallacy so I'll keep my mind open to the possibility :)

Comment author: cousin_it 16 September 2014 06:21:05PM *  4 points [-]

You've asked that before.

I don't have any new thoughts on this question, so I'll just quote my answer from there:

Yeah. People need to be needed, but if FAI can satisfy all other needs, then it fails to satisfy that one. Maybe FAI will uplift people and disappear, or do something more creative.

Comment author: lmm 16 September 2014 07:08:34PM 3 points [-]

I'm not talking about catgirls-- if some difficulties in relationships are part of making relationships better in the long haul, then the FAI will supply difficulties.

I thought that was already part of catgirls?

Comment author: hyporational 17 September 2014 03:08:00PM 2 points [-]

What's a catgirl?

Comment author: Lumifer 17 September 2014 03:19:28PM 5 points [-]

An indistinguishable-from-live sex toy.

Comment author: Jayson_Virissimo 17 September 2014 07:32:22PM 7 points [-]

With cat-ears.

Comment author: Lumifer 16 September 2014 03:38:20PM 2 points [-]

If people eventually have relationships with FAI-created humans rather than humans generated by other means, is this a problem?

This looks to be wireheading lite and if you got there I don't see why you wouldn't make the next step as well -- the FAI will create the entire world for you to enjoy inside your head.

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 16 September 2014 03:41:35PM 2 points [-]

I thought wireheading meant stable high pleasure without content rather than an enjoyable simulated world. What do other people think wireheading means?

Comment author: Lumifer 16 September 2014 03:49:45PM 1 point [-]

Well, technically the term "wireheading" comes from experiments which involved inserting an electrode (a "wire") into a rat's pleasure center and giving the rat a pedal to apply electric current to this wire. So yes, in the narrow sense wireheading is just the direct stimulation of the pleasure center.

However I use "wireheading" in the wide sense as well and there it means, essentially, the focus on deriving pleasure from externally caused but internal experiences and the lack of interest in or concern with the outside world. Wireheading in the wide sense is, basically, purified addiction.

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 16 September 2014 04:28:35PM 2 points [-]

If we're living inside an FAI, "outside world" might be getting a little vague. This might even be true if we're still living in our DNA-based bodies.

Do you think an FAI would let people have access to anything it isn't at least monitoring, and more likely controlling?

Comment author: Lumifer 16 September 2014 04:32:49PM *  1 point [-]

If we're living inside an FAI

Uploads/ems are a bit of a different case.

Do you think an FAI would let people have access to anything it isn't at least monitoring, and more likely controlling?

I don't know, but in such a case I probably would not consider it a FAI.

Comment author: hyporational 17 September 2014 03:16:09PM *  1 point [-]

Uploads/ems are a bit of a different case.

How? Why does it matter in what substrate the information pattern called you resides in this case? I doubt the meat brain will have any connectibility issues once we have uploads.

Comment author: Lumifer 17 September 2014 03:24:11PM 1 point [-]

Why does it matter in what substrate the information pattern called you resides in this case?

I am not an information pattern having, for example, a considerable somatic component :-D

Comment author: hyporational 17 September 2014 03:30:26PM 1 point [-]

Depends. You could have a robotic somatic component, or a human body grown in a vat.

Comment author: Lumifer 17 September 2014 03:45:20PM *  0 points [-]

I don't see much difference between a human body grown in a vat and one grown in a womb.

But, generally speaking, in the context of wireheading the somatic component matters.

Comment author: blacktrance 16 September 2014 09:42:11PM 1 point [-]

I say it's not a problem, but my views are outside the LW mainstream on this.

Comment author: gattsuru 19 September 2014 12:39:39AM *  0 points [-]

If people eventually have relationships with FAI-created humans rather than humans generated by other means, is this a problem?

Depends on what the machine has optimized for. I'm not convinced that many definitions of better friends or lovers are vital optimization goals, or even good ones, in themselves. It's quite easy to imagine a set of relationships that trigger every desirable stimuli trigger an individual enjoys, complete with short-term difficulties if necessary, but leaves the victim trapped in a situation where his or her preferences remain at a local optima or are otherwise Not Correct by some grander standard.

Interaction with external minds and external situations not built toward you seem like very important parts of jostling folk out from such environments. Better optimization goals might do that, but it's not an assumption you can easily take.

I'd argue that non-catgirl created beings are people (tautologically), and while relationships with artificially-produced people is fine itself, there are also some possible ethical issues with creating minds optimized for better relationships for certain people, as well, though they're likely outside the scope of this thread (energy efficiency compared to sorting existing minds, harmful desires, House Elves).