The default population of LW is heterosexual male :-) There is no such thing as a default human.
Obvious notion that shouldn't be obvious: Getting what you want.
This is what was answered-- it's about what people in general want, it's not about what the typical LW reader might want.
Now that I think about it, the idea that women should have ambitions outside their families is pretty new so far as I know. So is the idea that everyone should aim for being extraordinary.
My thanks to everyone who voted Lumifer's comments up-- I wasn't will to take a karma penalty to reply.
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