shminux comments on Open thread, Dec. 1 - Dec. 7, 2014 - Less Wrong Discussion
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Has anyone come across research on parents' attitudes towards their sons when they can see that girls don't find their teen boys sexually attractive? If you saw that happening to your son, that has to affect how you feel about him compared to how you would feel if you saw that your son had sexual opportunities.
This relates to my puzzlement about the idea that the "sexual debut" happens as an organic developmental stage with a median age of 17, compared with the fact that quite a few straight young men miss this window and become the targets of social derision and contempt.
Reference:
Who is the 40-year-old virgin and where did he/she come from? Data from the National Survey of Family Growth.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19493289
I'd say it's more of a pity than derision and contempt, but then it probably depends on one's social circles.