chaosmage comments on Open thread, Dec. 1 - Dec. 7, 2014 - Less Wrong Discussion
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I'm at the moment quite unsure how to handle a girl who seems to have bipolar depression and wants to have a relationship with me.
Four years ago I think she was in a quite stable mental state (I'm more percetive today than I was back then(. At the time she turned me down. I haven't seen her for a while and now she seems to be pretty broken as a result of mobbing in an enviroment that she now left.
One the one hand there the desire in me to try to fix her. Having a physical relationship with her also has it's appeal. On the other hand I can't see myself being open personally with her as long as she is in that messed up mental state.
Are you sharing your feelings or asking for advice?
It's context for the question I asked earlier.
There's a lot of information that goes into decision making that I won't be open about publically, so I'm not really asking on specific advice.