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CBHacking comments on Negative polyamory outcomes? - Less Wrong Discussion

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Comment author: CBHacking 07 January 2015 01:11:59PM 4 points [-]

A single person downvoting me without giving any reason why will have the opposite affect; my sensitivity to negative feedback is based on the "I am doing something wrong (and possibly not noticing it)" sensation, and if the person in question can't justify their actions and is acting alone, the most reasonable conclusion I see is that they're in the wrong and I am not.

Comment author: someonewrongonthenet 07 January 2015 11:17:09PM 3 points [-]

Yes, this is a good attitude to have. Evidence indicates that many others are more easily rankled.