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therufs comments on Negative polyamory outcomes? - Less Wrong Discussion

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Comment author: therufs 08 January 2015 10:14:54PM *  0 points [-]

Yeah. For me I don't think so much in terms of "don't out yourself" (basically figuring this is impossible) as "will I be able to manage my relationship with this bystander with minimum future awkwardness" (which I have maybe unreasonably low priors for.)

(Also, not net negative; see above)