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Comment author: Salemicus 10 April 2015 03:42:27PM 10 points [-]

Why not? Tit-for-tat is a better strategy than Cooperate-Bot.

Comment author: tog 11 April 2015 04:14:13PM 0 points [-]

"Tit-for-tat is a better strategy than Cooperate-Bot."

Can you use this premise in an explicit argument that expected reciprocation should be a factor in your decision to be nice toward others. How big a factor, relative to others (e.g. what maximises utility)? If there's an easy link to such an argument, all the better!

Comment author: TheAncientGeek 12 April 2015 12:15:58PM *  4 points [-]

If the problem you are trying to solve is how to motivate morality at the societal level, to a random bunch of people with varying preferences, then expected reciprocation is very important.

Under other assumptions, it isnt: for instance, forms of egoism, where you never risk any possible loss, and forms of altruism where only acts performed without expectation of reciprication are truly good.

Comment author: [deleted] 12 April 2015 06:28:00PM 1 point [-]

Can you give an explicit argument for why you"should" maximize utility for everyone, instead of just for yourself?

Comment author: tog 15 April 2015 03:07:08PM 0 points [-]

Some people offer arguments - eg http://philpapers.org/archive/SINTEA-3.pdf - and for some people it's a basic belief or value not based on argument.

Comment author: [deleted] 17 April 2015 05:01:38PM 0 points [-]

Did you edit your original comment? When i first read it, I thought it was saying the opposite of what it now seems to say... I actually agree with it now - should is not universal, it depends on your goals.

P.S That paper you provide actually argues hedonism, not utlilitarianism :).

Comment author: tog 20 April 2015 10:47:33PM 0 points [-]

Did you edit your original comment?

Not that I recall

Comment author: TheAncientGeek 12 April 2015 07:35:10PM 0 points [-]

The simple explanation is that it it's what should means. Beyond that, it would be helpful to have a more specific question..,whether you are questioning the rationality of morality,.or the morality of altruism ,. or whatever,

Comment author: polymathwannabe 10 April 2015 03:46:14PM 0 points [-]

Tit-for-tat makes sense. Preemptive tit-for-tat is unnecessarily aggressive.

Comment author: ete 10 April 2015 03:54:19PM 8 points [-]

Co-operate as default if you don't have a good read on whether the other person is co-operative is included in my suggestion, is that not enough for it to feel non-aggressive to you? Tit-for-tat, with co-operate first turn. If they come in at you sufficiently rudely without giving a chance for a reasonable request, you can take that as them playing defect preemptively.

And it's not specifically expected reciprocation I'd look for, but whether the person would be as helpful to a person in general if they were on the other side of the situation.

Comment author: estimator 10 April 2015 05:13:11PM *  4 points [-]

What if your estimate of other person's defection is 90%? 95%? 99%? What if he explicitly stated that he won't cooperate? What if you are Omega, and can make the prediction with 100% accuracy?

Comment author: VoiceOfRa 11 April 2015 03:19:56AM 6 points [-]

In general the problem with Tit-for-tat is that it requires repeated interactions with the same person. In the neighbor example, that's not necessarily a problem.

Of course that raises the question of what previous interactions with the neighbor were like something the OP hasn't specified, e.g., does he have a history of making unreasonable demands of the other members of the apartment? Has he been otherwise a nice guy?