This is a shame because social skills, dating and personal development are all important areas.

I guess LW nails the third one like jocks do to cheerleaders, at least it should otherwise.. well shit. But for the two other two I like HughRistik's comments. He had a comment with plenty of links to other comments of his. I'll look for it but not promising anything.

EDIT: here it is: http://lesswrong.com/lw/44r/post_proposal_attraction_and_seduction_for/3hn5

Now go get laid!

All they would have to do,

Still plenty of work, especially it's your hourly variant of "HOW DO I ASK THIS GIRL OUT". You either have a well-kept garden or you don't.

few moderators could be selected to divide up the work

I would settle for a moderator-user ratio.

On topic, I have no idea why I haven't been banned yet.