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Lumifer comments on Open Thread, Jul. 13 - Jul. 19, 2015 - Less Wrong Discussion

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Comment author: [deleted] 15 July 2015 11:16:07PM 0 points [-]

I don't see any moral reason why this should not happen, aside from deontological. It's possible to make the case that you would be more likely to end up in a dsyfunctional relationship, but it's possible to make the opposite case too - you have a much better idea of what the person is REALLY like before entering into a relationship with them, so you're less likely to enter into a relationship if you're incompatible.

I think this is one of those "gay marriage 50 years ago" things. People are going to come up with all sorts of excuses why it's wrong, simply because they're not comfortable with it.

Comment author: Lumifer 15 July 2015 11:56:41PM 1 point [-]

People are going to come up with all sorts of excuses why it's wrong, simply because they're not comfortable with it.

Isn't this a fully general explanation for anything at all?

Comment author: [deleted] 15 July 2015 11:59:08PM *  0 points [-]

It could be, for anything that people aren't comfortable with. This isn't in any way a rebuttal to arguments - it's an explanation for bad/non-arguments.