The general term you want to look up here is "L-estimators".
[EDITED to add:] ... Well, kinda. L-estimators are traditionally things you apply to a sample from the distribution, but you're proposing to compute analogous quantities for the distribution itself. But I think this is (except for really pathological cases?) equivalent to taking a really big sample -- e.g., >> n in your example -- and computing the corresponding L-estimator for that sample.
In a previous post, I looked at some of the properties of using the median rather than the mean.
Inspired by Househalter's comment, it seems we might be able to take a compromise between median and mean. It seems to me that simply taking the mean of the lower quartile, median, and upper quartile would also have the nice features I described, and would likely be closer to the mean.
Furthermore, there's no reason to stop there. We can take the mean of the n-1 n-quantiles.
Two questions:
Note the unlike the median approach, for large enough n, this maximiser will pay Pascal's mugger.