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Comment author: Clarity 16 October 2015 12:17:01AM 2 points [-]

Recently I sent a message to an old friend who had stopped talking to me a while ago. I asked if he was done ignoring me and he said something along the lines of 'you're temperamental, clearly delusional and gullible which is something I can live without'. Now, I was wondering about how I could improve on with respect to their impressions socially, since I am doing well currently in managing them with respect to personal wellbeing. I'd like to step past how his comments are hurtful, and recognise better how my behaviour may have hurt and continues to hurt people I know, and what I can do to improve. All tips welcome.

Comment author: MrMind 16 October 2015 07:14:43AM 0 points [-]

Have you tried asking him why he thought these things?

Comment author: Clarity 19 October 2015 12:38:03AM 0 points [-]

I asked him prompted by this suggestion:

I asked him why he believes that and he has now responding to say he's been telling me for years why and it just goes right over my head and he doesn't want to be part of that anymore.

So not really sure why...