Clarity comments on Open thread, Oct. 19 - Oct. 25, 2015 - Less Wrong Discussion
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If you idealize a woman and seek the perfect woman, you will appear to be performing less well than your image of the person. To avoid that effect it's good to have a relationship with a person where you also see their flaws and you both can be open about your flaws.
I had never contemplated this perspective before you suggested it, and it's immediately compelling. Thank you.