...but you can do that little, and then live in grief for however long you have. It's not just 'I'll teach him to be nice' that parents obsess about, it's more of 'no touching electrical outlets'. And it's the electrical outlets which makes people stress out in most cases, I bet.
I just read this article about the felicific calculus of parenthood.
In the comments section, the following grabbed my attention.
Then, I read this article. Here are the highlights:
That's rather confronting:
* a '5' on a scale of happiness ain't that bad
* don't stress too much when raising your biological kids, you can't do that much
* they're probably not worth having anyway
Just kidding. But, the evidence is quite fascinating.