When someone is about to be a parent (I think this question stick more to a man than a woman, considering the empathic link that's been biologicaly created between a child and his mother) is he really asking himself: Will they worth it ?
I think the situation is very different planned vs. unplanned. For me, once the decision was made I had no second thoughts. Also, the little munchkins re-write you emotionally once they arrive <- no one told me about this, so it was actually a bit of a shock.
I just read this article about the felicific calculus of parenthood.
In the comments section, the following grabbed my attention.
Then, I read this article. Here are the highlights:
That's rather confronting:
* a '5' on a scale of happiness ain't that bad
* don't stress too much when raising your biological kids, you can't do that much
* they're probably not worth having anyway
Just kidding. But, the evidence is quite fascinating.