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MrMind comments on Open Thread March 7 - March 13, 2016 - Less Wrong Discussion

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Comment author: username2 07 March 2016 10:48:19PM 2 points [-]

I don't know if this is the right place to ask, but... Less Wrongers, do you believe in falling in love after 20-25? For me it seems that I am no longer able to feel anything as intensely as I was able to feel when I was 18. I don't know what happened. I am not saying that people over 25 don't love, just that it is no longer the same thing. Maybe I'm just generalizing from one example, but although I am still young, I feel like I've lost something significant. Can you relate to any of that?

Comment author: MrMind 08 March 2016 08:18:07AM *  0 points [-]

I could relate to the same feeling when I was about your age, but at 31 I fell like I was never fallen before, and boy did it hurt like hell when it was over (it still does, in a sense). So, another opposite data point.

It's possible that the more experience we accumulate the better we become at manage whether or not to fall in love, but the intensity in my experience never fades.