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bbleeker comments on Open Thread March 7 - March 13, 2016 - Less Wrong Discussion

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Comment author: username2 07 March 2016 10:48:19PM 2 points [-]

I don't know if this is the right place to ask, but... Less Wrongers, do you believe in falling in love after 20-25? For me it seems that I am no longer able to feel anything as intensely as I was able to feel when I was 18. I don't know what happened. I am not saying that people over 25 don't love, just that it is no longer the same thing. Maybe I'm just generalizing from one example, but although I am still young, I feel like I've lost something significant. Can you relate to any of that?

Comment author: bbleeker 08 March 2016 02:57:26PM 2 points [-]

My husband and I fell in love when I was 40 and he was 36. I agree with Viliam: the obsession was definitely weaker, and the idea that the other will make life perfect forever was missing. But that's a good thing, IMO.