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ChristianKl comments on Open Thread April 4 - April 10, 2016 - Less Wrong Discussion

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Comment author: Clarity 05 April 2016 09:29:16AM 0 points [-]

Isn't admitting preference for someone the the coup de grace of romance?

Comment author: ChristianKl 05 April 2016 10:47:26PM 1 point [-]

It depends a lot on local culture. There are cultures that value the demonstration of personal power very much. Other cultures value consent and mutual respect more strongly.

Romance isn't about making a series of right moves. If both people want the same outcome then it's not a problem when one of them makes a few bad moves. Romance isn't antagonistic. Both people have the same goal.