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Bound_up comments on Cognitive Biases Affecting Self-Perception of Beauty - Less Wrong Discussion

0 Post author: Bound_up 29 May 2016 06:32PM

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Comment author: SquirrelInHell 31 May 2016 02:14:26AM 0 points [-]

OK, here's one example of something that is not covered: someone can feel that by focusing on their flaws, they get the benefit of putting more effort into presenting their best side, and improving their look. So they wouldn't want to stop concentrating on the flaws.

I mean, there's a lot of psychology/social pressures/doublethink/self-image/etc. issues around this. I anticipate that simply telling people"from now on, concentrate more on your positive sides!" does not solve the problem in most cases, and can even sound condescending (as if they didn't already know that!).

Comment author: Bound_up 31 May 2016 02:50:45PM 0 points [-]

Mmm, good point!

Now, I might imagine, in that scenario, that they still self-perceive as less beautiful because of all the attention they're giving their flaws.

But a side effect of no longer doing so and no longer self-perceiving negatively might be a decrease in their effectiveness in countering those flaws...