Strange... for example, I have fallen in love more-or-less twice, and in the same time, and have come to deeply admire several people with whom I try to hang out once in several months to a year, consciously spending up to half a day to talk for an hour. I even wish to be able to just fall in love with them properly, because it seems that they should be loved by as many people as possible:)

And AFAIK, my unattached twin treats them the same.

Maybe it would be a good idea to ask something like 'do you expect a change in [parameter] were you strictly aromantic?'