wedrifid comments on Love and Rationality: Less Wrongers on OKCupid - LessWrong

19 Post author: Relsqui 11 October 2010 06:35AM

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Comment author: wedrifid 15 October 2010 05:52:17AM 4 points [-]

The name is unfortunate. In fact, a lot of the people who are labelled "PUA" do disavow that acronym. There is a reason that Vladimir used a real language description "people who have any real knowledge of these matters" rather than the label that you moved to even though the categories referenced overlap dramatically.

I try to avoid that jargon as much as possible - it's inaccurate and an easy target for abuse. Avoiding it requires more typing and somewhat more awkward phrasing. "Social dynamics" is often a useful phrase. I think I would accept nearly any alternative, even something arbitrary.

Comment author: Relsqui 15 October 2010 05:57:11AM 2 points [-]

I'd support that. Social skills are a tool; tools don't have moral value themselves so much as the purposes they're wielded for do.