I wouldn't think you better off if instead of believing this, you believed wrongly that it is never appropriate to deviate from standard models.
No, I believe that it is not appropriate to deviate from a model you are trying to learn, before you have mastered it. This also means that it's inappropriate to critique a training program on the basis that it advocates not deviating from a model; it is, after all, material for people trying to learn that model.
[various confused things]
In order to explain why I think the rest of what you said is wrong and/or tangential, I'd have to take a lot of time to expand out each of your terms and assumptions, and I really don't want to take the time right now. So, all I'm going to say at this point is that your map of "belief" does not match the territory of the brain's hardware. Rather, it's a naive intuition of an idealized non-physical mind, not unlike the intuition that makes humans inclined to believe in things like souls.
IOW, the term "belief" is extremely overloaded. I deliberately have been referring to "models" rather than beliefs, specifically to narrow down the overloading. At minimum, we can divide beliefs into anticipative (Kahneman/Tversky System 1 aka "near") beliefs and verbal/symbolic (K/T System 2 aka "far") beliefs. Anticipative beliefs control your actual real-world anticipations, behaviors, and emotional responses, while verbal/symbolic beliefs drive your verbal reasoning, professions of belief, and long-term expectations.
This split explains why one can "not believe in ghosts", but still be scared in a haunted house, or "believe" that one is just as deserving as anyone else, yet have trouble speaking up in a group.
However, the system 1/system 2 distinction is only the tip of the iceberg with respect to how beliefs and models work in the brain - there are meaningful subdistinctions within both system 1 and system 2, and there are differences in how permeable the systems are -- the rate, you might say, at which a belief can "diffuse" through the brain and influence other things.
None of this, AFAICT, is incorporated into your naive model of epistemological contagion.
That being said, I don't advocate teaching things that would be contagious.
For example, I wouldn't support NVC's teaching that violence is just learned and not inherent to human beings; that's plain stupid. However, the apparent intended function of that belief is to communicate that the expression of violent impulses is modulated by choice and learning, and so I'd need to replace that belief with some other idea that conveys that same point... perhaps in a story or metaphor that conveys the idea implicitly, so as to help push it into students' System 1models (where it really needs to be, anyway, if you want people to behave differently, vs. being able to regurgitate things on tests).
None of this, AFAICT, is incorporated into your naive model of epistemological contagion.
I can't see why you would guess my model excluded it.
I wouldn't support NVC's teaching that violence is just learned and not inherent to human beings; that's plain stupid.
OK, so starting with the foundational belief of NVC, it's important that learners of NVC not think any of that is true, and not to be misled by its association with the sound methods it apparently underlies. I haven't seen any advocate of NVC say as much, but I haven't delved into it.
Why should...
Related to: Building rationalist communities, Lessons from Latter-day Saints, Holy Books (Or Rationalist Sequences) Don't Implement Themselves, Designing rationalist projects.
I'm beginning a new subseries of posts, trying to answer the following question: what should be the roles in a rationalist community?
In this post and the next one, I will outline the roles in Latter-day Saint communities. In the following posts, I will draw more conclusions as to which roles would be ideal for rationalist communities.
I should note that these sets of responsibilities are designed to function in congregations where 100 to 150 people come to church every week. They are slimmed down when the congregations are smaller. I’m going to outline all the roles, and as I go, I’ll note which ones are the most important.
The Main Roles
There are four main groups of “callings,” responsibilities in the church. I will discuss the first two groups in this post.
First, there are the teachers, who speak, teach and lead discussions in Sunday church meetings.
Second, there are auxiliaries, responsible for ensuring the well-being of the various segments of the congregation. In each congregation, there is a women’s organization, a men’s organization, as well as young women’s, young men’s, and children’s organizations.
In smaller groups, the leaders and more-committed members often wear multiple hats.
Teachers.
"Teachers [are] foot soldiers in the ongoing war against ignorance and complacency. Sunday worship is only as good and effective as the teaching." - Orson Scott Card. (Link, read the whole piece if you like this one.)
Some members of the congregation are selected as regular teachers, who teach “Sunday school” classes to everyone, for two hours of class every Sunday.
In addition, every week, three speakers from the congregation are assigned to give talks in the one-hour everyone-together “sacrament meeting”. These rotate every week; people rarely give talks more than once every six months.
Teacher selection
Qualifications? Interestingness and the ability to promote personal applications.
The main enemy in church is simply boring-ness. Making a learning experience interesting is a nontrivial problem: visit your local school for evidence of that. This is even more where everybody is expected to teach, at some point.
Speakers in the everyone-together “sacrament meeting” can drone on about favorite stories. Teachers can um and er their way through the lesson and ask bad questions.
While selecting teachers, leaders must balance two conflicting objectives: interesting classes and skill development.
On the one hand, if you pick the relatively confident, outgoing, intelligent people to teach, you’re more likely to have interesting classes. On the other hand, if these people teach all the time, the others will never get a chance to learn to teach.
Why is learning to teach so important for everyone? Well, everyone has to teach their children.[1] Plus there are recruiting and career benefits.
The usual compromise is a mix of the two types. Some teachers are picked primarily so the classes will learn, and some are picked primarily so the teachers will learn.[2]
This is supported by a shared norm/belief that the responsibility to learn lies with each individual; and you shouldn’t blame a bad teacher. In a class focused on basic principles of living life, through sufficient humility and introspection, you can learn in any class, even given a less-articulate or educated teacher.[3]
The norm is most clearly articulated by C.S. Lewis:
Manuals.
The church, having been around for awhile, condensed the doctrine into a set of manuals. Here are some examples of manuals.
There provide for a more standardized curriculum and provide a way to disseminated shared institutional knowledge, both doctrinal and practical (good questions to ask when teaching a particular topic.)
Again, there is a tradeoff:
Finally, manuals provide a lower bound for teaching quality by giving inexperienced teachers basic ideas and jumping-off points.
The only way to figure out whether manuals are a good thing for Less Wrong is to include what works and see if good results can be replicated.
Discussion
One of the most important but unassigned (unassignable?) roles is ‘intelligent commenter’ – saying useful things in class discussion, taking the initiative and leading small group discussion, summarizing the group’s discussion in useful form to the teacher afterwards.
The best teachers aren’t so much teachers as discussion moderators. But this is far from automatic, especially given the earlier discussion of teacher quality.
Less Wrong seems to use small groups, which work well as long as at least one ‘intelligent commentator; ends up in each group. Without people trying to keep the discussion on track, it can roam around topics without actually going anywhere.[4]
Auxiliaries
There is the men’s organization and the women’s organization. Sometimes there are other groups; for example, in my current church, there is a group of Stanford students, since about half of the church members are students there.
(In “family wards” there are also organizations for the teenage boys and girls, plus one for younger children)
Basically: this is how you number the flock and make sure you don’t forget about anyone. More about that later when I discuss leadership.
The men’s organization divides the men in two and assigns each pair three to five people to visit monthly and watch out for. The women’s organization similarly divides the women into pairs and assigns them to visit each other. This is called “home teaching” for men or “visiting teaching” for women.
Home and visiting teachers are expected to be the first line of service if someone needs a ride to church or the airport, if their marriage is straining, if they end up in the hospital, etc.
This helps most for those who don’t live with other church members and for families. It is mostly redundant for those that are roommates with other church members.
Visiting rates are around sixty percent in my church unit (all young single adults), maybe forty percent overall. (That is, 40 or 60 percent of people are visited every month.)
The division is along age and gender lines because, as for age, the youth will naturally just divide that way anyway.
As for gender, there’s the obvious reason: a group of guys, or a group of girls, will talk about anything gender-related more freely than in mixed groups.
There are also norms that place a high emphasis on a traditional family model. A single woman, a new mother, and a mother with her last kid on the way out the door are in different stages of the same role, and are well positioned to learn from and support each other. (Similarly with males.)
Groupings will likely slice differently in Less Wrong communities, of course. Having a formal or informal woman’s subgroup is probably a good idea, else the gender balance will probably continue to be, um, skewed.[5]
[1] This is a reasonably well-understood topic among Latter-day Saints. See here.
[2] I should add there is a group responsible for ensuring teachers are trained properly, through holding teacher training classes, and so on.
[3] This is also supported by another norm, that the group already understands the central ‘purpose of life’ type questions; the challenge to discover them through intelligent analysis. Instead, the central challenge of life is to apply already-known principles consistently in life, ie overcoming akrasia, and this is a talent to which intelligence and articulation are not qualifications.
These norms are usually cited in response to concerns like, "I don't see any reason to come to church, it's boring and I don't feel like I'm learning anything I don't know."
[4] This was my father’s impression when I brought my parents to the LW meetup in Tortuga. He said it reminded him of his college days in IIT-Bombay. There were a lot of smart people living together, and most of them had never been around other smart people before and were so excited to be around each other. A lot of discussions there were unsatisfying, as they seemed to pinball frantically around n number of topics without actually seeming to go anywhere
[5] How can this be effective? Well, Less Wrongian women should probably have some sort of ongoing discussion about this. One idea from me: Divia was telling me about Crucial Conversations and Nonviolent Communication. Not trying to gender stereotype, but maybe subgroup meetings on these kinds of topics would attract a more broad base of women?