NancyLebovitz comments on Knowing what you want is a prerequisite to getting what you want - LessWrong

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Comment author: NancyLebovitz 13 July 2011 07:32:44AM 1 point [-]

Geoff Anders' Connection Theory has a lot of overlap with what you're saying. So does Core Transformation.

The information that I gave her about herself, while true, hurt her self-esteem, and this weakened our relationship, ultimately contributing to our breaking up.

It sounds like a case of other-optimizing.