Single bad things happen to you at random. Iterated bad things happen to you because you're a dumbass. Related: "You are the only common denominator in all of your failed relationships."
There is such a thing as bad luck, though perhaps it's less in play in relationships than in most areas of life.
I think that if you keep having relationships that keep failing in the same way, it's a stronger signal that if they just fail.
Another month has passed and here is a new rationality quotes thread. The usual rules are: