katydee comments on Handshakes, Hi, and What's New: What's Going On With Small Talk? - LessWrong

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Comment author: katydee 03 January 2014 07:28:16PM *  1 point [-]

At least in our English class, we were taught that the only acceptable response to being asked "How do you do" is to repeat "How do you do" back.

This is actually true, at least in terms of what's 'proper' to say!

However, very few people know about it anymore, at least in the United States-- that's what I was alluding to when I said that "most people of my generation don't really know how to react to this." In fact, I've legitimately never heard anyone other than myself make the "correct" response there.

Comment author: byrnema 03 January 2014 08:17:25PM 0 points [-]

I'm a 30-something American, and I only know about this rule from old movies about old times (like Pollyanna, set in the early 1900s).