I need some advice. I recently moved to a city and I don't know how to stop myself from giving money to strangers! I consider this charity to be questionable and, at the very least, inefficient. But when someone gets my attention and asks me specifically for a certain amount of money and tells me about themselves, I won't refuse. I don't even feel annoyed that it happened, but I do want to have it not happen again. What can I do?
The obvious precommitment to make is to never carry cash. I am strongly considering this and could probably do so, but it is nice to be able to have at least enough for a bus trip, a quick lunch or for some emergency. I have tried to give myself a running tally of number of people refused and when that gets to, say, 20, I would donate something to a known legitimate charity. While doing so makes me feel better about passing beggars by, it doesn't help once someone gets me one-on-one. So I've never gotten to that tally without resetting it first by succumbing to someone. Is there some way to not look like an easy mark? Are there any good standard pieces of advice and resources for this?
However, I always find these exchanges to be really fascinating from the point of view of the Dark Arts used. The most recent time this happened, I was stopped and asked for the time which he promptly ignored. Then he told me that he had seen me around before - this is entirely plausible since I walk by there most days but is also likely to be true of a randomly selected person so could just be a shot in the dark. He shook my hand multiple times. Gave me his name and told me to call him by his nickname. He told me about being a veteran, talked to me about any veterans I knew. Tried to guess my current job and messed up in a way that implied I was younger than I am which was probably his only significant mistake as that could have annoyed some people. He then acted impressed when I corrected him. Asked where I was from and then said he had an acquaintance from nearby. Then of course he asked for train ride money which started at 8 dollars and ended up being 23.
I could practically check off the chapters of Cialdini's Influence one-by-one on this list and noticed at least two of these tactics while they were being used. Unfortunately, Cialdini's book has laughable excuses for sections on "Defense Against" said dark arts, rarely saying anything more than "just use the fact that they're using these tricks against them since now you know better!" So, here I am, knowing the nature of my foe and yet still being utterly dragged in by it.
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"A model is an interpretation of the sentences generated by a language. A model is a structure which assigns a truth value to each sentence generated by some language under some logic."
I think this phrasing will be very misleading to anyone who tries to learn model theory from these posts. This is one thing a model DOES, but it isn't what a model IS. As far as I can tell, you nowhere say what a model is, even approximately. Writing out precisely what a model is takes a lot of space (like in the book you're reading!) so let me give an example.
Our alphabet will be the symbols of first order logic, plus as many variable names as we need, and the symbols +, =, 0.
Our axioms are
∀ x : x+0=0+x=x
∀ x,y: x+y=y+x
∀ x,y,z: (x+y)+z=x+(y+z)
∀ x ∃ y : x+y=y+x=0
Our THEORY is the set of all logical consequences of these statements, where "logical consequence" means "obtainable by the formal rules of first order logic . A MODEL of our theory is a specific set G, a specific element of G called 0 and a specific operation + taking two elements of G and returning a third element of G, such that all of these statements are true about G. In other words, a model of this theory is an abelian group.
One thing an abelian group can do is give us a way to assign a true or false value to any statement in our language. For example, consider the statement ∀ x ∃ y : y+y+y=x. This statement is true in the group of rational numbers, but false in the group of integers. If we choose a particular abelian group, that will force a specific choice as to whether this statement is true or false.
However, you shouldn't identify an abelian group with a way of assigning truth values to statements about abelian groups. For example, the rational numbers and the real numbers are both abelian groups and, as it turns out, there is no statement using only +, 0, = and logical connectives whose truth value is different in these two groups. Nonetheless, they are different models.