In response to comment by Ferd on Ask and Guess
Comment author: lucidfox 02 December 2010 07:44:08AM *  9 points [-]

Things women and men tend to do in unmixed groups, respectively.

[Citation needed]!

In response to comment by lucidfox on Ask and Guess
Comment author: Ferd 03 December 2010 04:37:50AM *  -2 points [-]

You can't think war isn't gendered, or that women as a group have trouble understanding that money can be exchanged for goods and services. You probably don't think I'd be really attached to the ideas in one dashed-off post that's full of holes.

And I hope you don't think that the first thing you should do, when you run across a new concept, is to go find sources to justify any associations it might trigger.

So what are you really objecting to?

ETA: Seriously. I'd like to know.

In response to Ask and Guess
Comment author: Ferd 02 December 2010 02:28:19AM *  4 points [-]

Guessy: Etiquette. Fashion. Religion. Favor trading & extent of trust. Social status. The attitudes, abilities and intentions of others. Taboos.

Asky: Monetary economic transactions. Contracts. Science. Engineering. Medicine. War. Philosophy class.

Guessy suggests small groups and the exclusion mechanisms to maintain them in a populous world. Asky just looks modern.

Things women and men tend to do in unmixed groups, respectively.

Other ideas?

In response to comment by TheOtherDave on Ask and Guess
Comment author: JStewart 02 December 2010 12:37:53AM 7 points [-]

(There actually was a method for getting it, but it was an Advanced Guess Culture technique, not readily taught in one session.)

I'd love an explanation of the technique.

In response to comment by JStewart on Ask and Guess
Comment author: Ferd 02 December 2010 01:39:03AM *  12 points [-]

Volunteer to help with the dishes, then ask whether you can take away the plate the chicken is sitting on. If nobody else claims it, it's yours.

Clear another plate before you touch the one with the chicken on it. Clear something else after. Clear your plate when you're done eating.

Don't do more work than your hosts. You're being helpful, not trying to work off the price of dinner.

Comment author: JGWeissman 13 November 2010 01:28:38AM 17 points [-]

I've noticed that even when people say "Let's play chess", they get confused when I reply "Okay, e4", like they were expecting to use a board.

Comment author: Ferd 14 November 2010 06:42:10AM *  4 points [-]

I'd be confused. d4 is better and everyone knows it.