Comment author: Lumifer 10 October 2016 02:33:31PM *  1 point [-]

The argument that I was making or, maybe, just implying is a version of the argument for deontological ethics. It rests on two lemmas: (1) You will make mistakes; (2) No one is a villain in his own story.

To unroll a bit, people who do large-scale evil do not go home to stroke a white cat and cackle at their own evilness. They think they are the good guys and that they do what's necessary to achieve their good goals. We think they're wrong, but that's an outside view. As has been pointed out, the road to hell is never in need of repair.

Given this, it's useful to have firebreaks, boundaries which serve to stop really determined people who think they're doing good from doing too much evil. A major firebreak is emotional empathy -- it serves as a check on runaway optimization processes which are, of course, subject to the Law of Unintended Consequences.

And, besides, I like humans more than I like optimization algorithms :-P

Comment author: Jacobian 11 October 2016 01:11:07PM 0 points [-]

How about: doing evil (even inadvertently) requires coercion. Slavery, Nazis, tying a witch to a stake, you name it. Nothing effective altruists currently do is coercive (except to mosquitoes), so we're probably good. However, if we come up with a world improvement plan that requires coercing somebody, we should A) hear their take on it and B) empathize with them for a bit. This isn't a 100% perfect plan, but it seems to be a decent framework.

Comment author: WhySpace 06 October 2016 10:09:43PM 0 points [-]

This is actually something I've been trying to articulate for a long time. It's fantastic to finally have a scientific name for it, (emotional vs cognitive empathy) along with a significantly different perspective.

I'd be inclined to share this outside the rationalist community. Ideally, me or someone else would weave most of the same concepts into a piece intellectuals in general as a target audience. (NOT someone associated directly with EA though, and not with too much direct discussion of EA, because we wouldn't want to taint it as a bunch of straw Vulcans.)

However, this is well written and might suffice for that purpose. The only things I think would confuse random people linked to this would be the little Hanson sitting on your shoulder, the EY empathy/saving the world bit, and the mention of artificial intelligence. It might also not be clear that your argument is quite narrow scope. (You're only criticizing some forms of emotional empathy, not all forms, and not cognitive empathy. You aren't, for instance, arguing against letting emotional empathy encourage us to do good in the first place, but only against letting it overpower the cognitive empathy that would let us do good effectively.)

So, does anyone have any thoughts as to whether linking non-nerds to this would still be a net positive? I guess the value of information is high here, so I can share with a few friends as an experiment. Worst case is I spend a few idiosyncrasy credits/weirdness points.

Comment author: Jacobian 09 October 2016 12:11:48PM 0 points [-]

I'm actually not a fan of the bit I've written about Eliezer, I should probably remove it if that will allow you to share it with more people. That paragraph doesn't do a lot for the piece.

Comment author: Unnamed 07 October 2016 06:08:47AM 1 point [-]

This post doesn't have much that addresses the "expanding circle" case for empathy, which goes something like this:

Empathy is a powerful tool for honing in on what matters in the world. By default, people tend to use it too narrowly. We can see that in many of the great moral failings of the past (like those mentioned here) which involved people failing to register some others as an appropriate target of empathy, or doing a lousy job of empathizing which involved making up stories more than really putting oneself in their shoes, or actively working to block empathy by dehumanizing them and evoking disgust, fear, or other emotions. But over time there has been moral progress as societies have expanded the circle of who people habitually feel empathy for, and developed norms and institutions to reflect their membership in that circle of concern. And it is possible to do better than your societal default if you cultivate your empathy, including the ability to notice the blind spots where you could be empathizing but are not (and the ability to then direct some empathy towards those spots). This could include people who are far away or across some boundary, people in an outgroup who you might feel antagonistic towards, people who have been accused of some misdeed, people and nonhumans that are very different from you, those who are not salient to you at the moment, those who don't exist yet, those who are only indirectly affected by your actions, etc.

Comment author: Jacobian 09 October 2016 12:09:34PM 0 points [-]

I am very much in favor of "expanding the circle of empathy". My thesis is that this consists of supplanting your emotional empathy (who your heart beats in harmony with naturally) with cognitive empathy (who your brain tells you is worthy of empathy even if you don't really feel their Tajik feelings).

Comment author: Lumifer 07 October 2016 02:35:22PM -1 points [-]

I am afraid I cannot claim here any particularly noble motives.

In Jacobian's text there are, basically, two decision points: the first one is deciding to do good, and the second one is deciding on a course of action. You lose empathy in between them. There are (at least) two ways to interpret this. In one when you decide "do good", you make just a very generic decision to do some unspecified good. All the actual choices are at the "course of action" point. In another one at the first decision point you already decide what particular good do you want to work towards and then the second decision point is just the details of implementation.

I didn't want to start dissecting Jacobian's post at this level of detail, so I basically simplified it by saying that you lose your empathy before making some (but not necessarily all) choices. I don't know if you want to classify it as "technically incorrect" :-/

Comment author: Jacobian 09 October 2016 12:00:15PM 0 points [-]

You still haven't made a single argument in favor of emotional empathy, other than conflating lack of emotional empathy with, in order of appearance: Stalinism, Nazism, witch hunting, fanaticism. None of this name calling was supported by any evidence re:empathy.

Comment author: siIver 06 October 2016 02:35:05PM *  3 points [-]

I think this is the first article in a long time that straight up changed my opinion in a significant way. I always considered empathy a universally good thing – in all forms. In fact I held it as one of the highest values. But the logic of the article is hard to argue with.

I still tentatively disagree that it [emotional empathy] inherently bad. Following what I read, I'd say it's harmful because it's overvalued/misunderstood. The solution would be to recognize that it's an egoistical thing – as I'm writing this I can confirm that I think this now. Whereas cognitive empathy is the selfless thing.

Doing more self-analysis, I think I already understood this on some level, but I was holding the concept of empathy in such high regards that I wasn't able to consciously criticize it.

I think this article is something that people outside of this community really ought to read.

Comment author: Jacobian 06 October 2016 05:32:41PM 1 point [-]

Thank you, this is the biggest compliment I could hope for.

I worry whenever I write anything that could fall into bravery debate territory. I worry that for some readers it would sound stale and obvious, or be the precise opposite of the advice they need, while others would reject it in disgust after reading two lines. I write about things that hit me in the right spot: ideas I was on the precipice of and something pushed me over. And then I hope that I'll find at least a few readers who are in the same spot I am.

Comment author: Lumifer 06 October 2016 03:11:50PM 3 points [-]

So, if the emotional empathy should be discarded, why should I help all those strangers? The only answer that the link suggests is "social propriety".

But social propriety is a fickle thing. Sometimes it asks you to forgive the debts of the destitute, and sometimes it asks you to burn the witches. Without empathy, why shouldn't you cheer at the flames licking the evil witch's body? Without empathy, if there are some kulaks or Juden standing in the way of the perfect society, why shouldn't you kill them in the most efficient manner at your disposal?

Comment author: Jacobian 06 October 2016 05:24:41PM *  1 point [-]

With empathy, it turns out that Germans were much more likely to empathize with other Germans than with Juden. With empathy, everyone was cheering as the witches burned.

Moral progress is the progress of knowledge. Slavers in the antebellum South convinced themselves that they were doing a favor to the slaves because the latter couldn't survive by themselves in an advanced economy. A hundred years later, they changed their minds more than they changed their hearts. We (some of us) have learned that coercion is almost always bad, making world saving plans that involve a lot of coercion tend to fail, and preserving people's freedom (blacks, witches and Jews included) increases everyone's welfare.

Is empathy part of one's motivation to even pursue moral progress? Perhaps, but if so it's a very deep part of us that will never be discarded. All I'm saying is that whenever you have finally decided that you should make the world a better place, at that point emotional empathy is a bias that you should discard when choosing a course of action.

In response to May Outreach Thread
Comment author: Jacobian 18 May 2016 07:38:14PM 0 points [-]

I wrote a long post encouraging people to read The Sequences and getting slightly miffed at "postrationalists" on my blog.

Comment author: [deleted] 05 May 2016 03:30:15PM 0 points [-]

Did you see the links in OP's post? As I clarified, links take readers away from a page. Who knows whether they will then become distracted by a link on that new page, etc., etc., and then you lose readers unnecessarily. Links should be purposeful, meant to verify data/claims.

Pictures, like links, should center around the main purpose of the post but again, purposefully. The pic from Elf, for example, added nothing to the post (that's not even a quote from the movie) and said something we already know: OP wants us to donate. No new information. I said something like the hedgehog would be more acceptable given it adds a bit of personality while the hedgehog hails from the area being discussed--a weak connection, but something light people can enjoy.

Again, from my experience in journalism, very few articles need more than one picture, and if you're going to put a picture in it better add to the point, not just stand as something pretty to look at and get distracted from the piece.

Comment author: Jacobian 05 May 2016 06:45:34PM 2 points [-]

Intuitively, I'm mostly optimizing for having readers come back to the blog. With that said, I'm making no money off it (just today I paid $80 to remove ads from Putanumonit) and I'm trying to keep readers by being interesting and educational and not by being clickbaity or controversial.

Regarding pictures, there this piece of advice by Scott (number 2) to break walls of text with pictures although one does notice that Scott doesn't follow that advice himself. I think I'll stick with that, I don't think the pictures are that distracting.

Some people like links and some people hate them, I think that people who are familiar with my blog just learn to ignore most of them. I can see how many links are clicked per view of my posts, it's not a lot. With that said, probably at least 20% of my links are useless and distracting. I'll do my best to rein the excessive linking in :)

Comment author: Huluk 26 March 2016 12:55:37AM *  26 points [-]

[Survey Taken Thread]

By ancient tradition, if you take the survey you may comment saying you have done so here, and people will upvote you and you will get karma.

Let's make these comments a reply to this post. That way we continue the tradition, but keep the discussion a bit cleaner.

Comment author: Jacobian 11 April 2016 06:54:17PM 11 points [-]

Lo, I have taken the survey.

Comment author: Viliam 29 March 2016 08:28:57PM *  34 points [-]

Yeah, it's nice when your opponents volunteer to remove from you the burden of proof whether they are irrational.

But seriously, I don't even know where to start. Perhaps here: Articles written on most popular websites are clickbait. It means that their primary purpose is to make you read the article after seeing the headline, and then share it either because you love it or because you hate it. And that's what you did. Mission accomplished.

Another article on the same website explains why animal rights movements are oppresive. (I am not going to link it, but here are the arguments for the curious readers: because it's wrong to care about animals while there are more important causes on this planet such as people being oppressed; because vegans and vegetarians don't acknowledge that vegan or vegetarian food can be expensive; because describing animals as male and female marginalizes trans people; and because protecting animals is colonialistic against native people who hunt animals as part of their tradition.) Obviously, the whole article is an exercise in making the reader scream and share the article to show other readers how crazy it is. This is exactly what the authors and editors get paid for; this is how you shovel the sweet AdSense money on them. So the only winning move is not to play this game.

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I may be too extreme in this aspect, but when I talk with most people, I simply assume that almost everything they say is a metaphor for something (usually for their feelings), and almost nothing is to be taken literally. This is a normal way of communication among people who couldn't program a Friendly AI if their very lives depended on it.

When someone says "rationality is bad", the correct translation is probably something like "I hate my father because he criticized me a lot and didn't play with me; and my father believes he is smart, and he makes smartness his applause light; and this is why I hate everything that sounds like smartness". You cannot argue against that. (If you try anyway, the person will not remember any specific thing you said, they will only remember that you are just as horrible person as their father.) This is how people talk. This is how people think. And they understand each other, so when another person who also hates their father hears it, they will get the message, and say something like "yeah, exactly like you said, rationality is stupid". And then they know they can trust each other on the emotional level.

Here is a short dictionary containing the idioms from the article:

  • everydayfeminism.com = "I hate my father"
  • we should abolish prisons, police = "I hate my father"
  • cisheteropatriarchy = "I hate my father; but I also blame my mother for staying with him"
  • those who are committed to social justice = "my friends, who also hate their fathers"
  • we have to stop placing limits on ourselves = "we should steal some money and get high"
  • Being Rational Has No Inherent Value = "I don't even respect my father"
  • my very existence is irrational = "my father disapproves of my lifestyle"
  • The only logical time for abolition and decolonization is now = "I wish I had the courage to tell my parents right now how much I am angry at them"

You are overanalyzing it, searching for a logical structure when there is none. If you treat the article as a free-form poem, you will get much closer to the essence. You don't share the author's emotions, that's why the text rubs you the wrong way.

And by the way, other political groups do similar things, just in a different flavor (and perhaps intensity).

Comment author: Jacobian 30 March 2016 09:18:18PM *  5 points [-]

I simply assume that almost everything they say is a metaphor for something (usually for their feelings).

It has taken me many years to realize that, but the more I look for it the more I notice it. I have a friend on Facebook who's a Syrian living in NYC, she keeps posting things like "Here's the proof Assad is actually a spy planted by the Israeli Mossad to cause genocide in Syria". I kept asking her how she could possibly believe it and got very confusing responses that didn't really address the question. And then it hit me: for her and for many Arabs "X is a Mossad spy" is simply an eloquent way of saying "I hate X", it has literally nothing to do with the Mossad at all. My friend was confused why I even bring facts about the Mossad into a discussion of whether Assad is a Mossad spy.

Viliam gave enough SJ examples, so I'll give one from the other side: there was a campaign by some famous PUA to boycott Mad Max: Fury Road because it's feminist propaganda. Hold on, isn't that the movie where the attractive women in skimpy clothes are called "breeders" whose job is to make babies? And then I realized:

  • For PUAs "X is feminist propaganda" = "I hate X"
  • For some Russians "X is a CIA plot" = "I hate X"
  • For some Evangelical Christians "X is from the Devil" = "I hate X"
  • For some communists "X is capitalist" = "I hate X"
  • For some capitalists "X is communist" = "I hate X"

Etcetera, etcetera.

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