Comment author: Lumifer 29 September 2014 05:33:56PM 1 point [-]

You can have a look at the testimonials page on my site

You don't think there might be a wee bit of a selection bias there..? :-)

Comment author: ShannonFriedman 29 September 2014 06:08:46PM 0 points [-]

Of course. For the statistics I used all clients and did not cherry pick, but you only have my word for that. And of course there is selection bias for who gives me a testimonial.

That said, those testimonials and statistics are the best that I have to make my point.

If you want me to provide you a perfect, infallible argument to persuade you to change your life, you are going to be waiting a very long time, because I am neither interested nor possessing the time and energy to do it.

If you want evidence that has signal, then that is what I have given you. You can ignore it and/or pick it apart, and get nothing from it, as you seem to have chosen to do.

Someone else might get quite a lot of value from it, if they use the strategy of looking at signal rather than assuming that they are right until proven wrong.

Comment author: hairyfigment 28 September 2014 08:42:18PM 1 point [-]

I don't even know the question. The OP's comparison with religious faith serves no clear purpose; the whole post seems more like an advertisement than an immediately useful suggestion. Compare and contrast this post.

Comment author: ShannonFriedman 29 September 2014 05:47:24PM 0 points [-]

The summary has been added, thank you for the suggestion.

Comment author: Lumifer 29 September 2014 02:45:56AM 3 points [-]

Like gjm, I don't understand what the point of this post is. All is see is playing with words and making them stretch into uncomfortable positions -- something that doesn't seem all that useful.

Comment author: ShannonFriedman 29 September 2014 05:46:28PM 0 points [-]

I added the summary to the main post.

Comment author: Weedlayer 29 September 2014 05:11:51AM 5 points [-]

I have say I didn't find this post particularly useful.

On my first reading, I was having some difficultly understanding what point you were making. You seem to use some words or phrases in highly non-standard ways, I still have no idea what some sentences like "Its fairly easy to make sense on a mid-level" mean. I get the general impression of a post by someone whose first language isn't English, or who didn't proofread their own work, and that makes reading it a chore, not predisposing me to like it. Cleaning the post up and using more simple language, progressing from one idea to the next in an obvious and logical fashion would make it much easier to read.

After reading it again, it seems like the point you're making is that very few people have justifications for their beliefs, and thus, there's not a significant difference between having a religious belief because your guru told you, and having a secular belief because a scientist told you. In other words, physics is basically a religion unless you can do math. The things you say in support of this argument (If indeed it resembles in any way what you are trying to say) are strange, to say the least. You seem to conflate the belief "If I eat I will not be hungry" with religious beliefs by calling them both "faith". This seems disingenuous, like comparing the probability of winning the lottery and of not being struck lightning, and concluding both are "uncertain".

Your post offers no real suggestions for overcoming our biases, which you assert all people have. You say you "eliminat[e] false beliefs, and replac[e] them with more empowering true beliefs", followed by what seems to be an advertisement for contracting some type of service (counseling?). In other words, you say "everyone has false beliefs, you included, so hire me to help fix them and be happier".

There may be something of value here, but right now I can't see it.

Comment author: ShannonFriedman 29 September 2014 05:45:59PM 0 points [-]

I added the summary, does this clarify for you sufficiently?

Comment author: shminux 29 September 2014 05:34:10PM *  4 points [-]

Shannon, it seems pretty clear from the reaction that either the point you are trying to make is invalid, or you are doing a really poor job making it. If you are absolutely sure it's the latter, consider rewriting the post from scratch in a way that matches your intended audience.

Comment author: ShannonFriedman 29 September 2014 05:44:16PM 0 points [-]

Thank you. I just now posted the summary (at -12). Rewriting the post from scratch sounds like a good idea. Is that done frequently on this blog?

Comment author: Lumifer 29 September 2014 05:08:46PM 1 point [-]

Its not an either/or.

Well, that's how you have framed it :-/ As to "entirely cultural", so is the "kindergarten" style of giving feedback. Gold stars for participation to everyone!

thus makes it far easier for people to assimilate the feedback given.

It also makes it far easier for people to ignore the (negative) feedback, focus on the positive, and decide that everything is fine and nothing needs to be changed.

Comment author: ShannonFriedman 29 September 2014 05:21:44PM *  0 points [-]

Here is what I actually said:

I'm also very positive reinforcement and appreciation oriented, so its pretty jarring to run into so much hating and so little appreciation. Not that I can't handle it, but its certainly a lot less pleasant to have all of the imperfections picked apart than to have the effort and signal appreciated. There are a lot of different ways to say the same things and reach the same (or better) results.But that is a different post, which I will probably write elsewhere.

I do this professionally and know that my systems are far more effective at achieving desired results as well as having the nice side effect of positive affect. I do not feel like taking the time and energy to explain my work right now, as it is not on topic for this discussion. You can have a look at the testimonials page on my site if you want to see a lot of people talking about the results they have gotten.

Comment author: fubarobfusco 29 September 2014 04:37:42AM *  0 points [-]

The truth is, that the assumption that all religious and mystical people do not believe in the laws of physics is entirely false.

Oh, I completely agree!

In fact, that was my point, which I took to be an elaboration or variation of Viliam's.

It wasn't about scientific people versus religious people. It was about the wide diversity of religious belief versus the relative unity of physical belief.

Christians, Hindus, and atheists may completely disagree on matters of theology or metaphysics, but may completely agree on matters of everyday physical reality. (I say "may" because of course there are exceptions, such as young-earth creationists.) The same is pretty much true for, say, elementary mathematics.

We are all more-or-less equally capable of getting on with the physical world, even if we believe things about gods or spirituality that completely contradict one another.

I suggest that this is precisely because we all interact with the same everyday physical reality, and our physical beliefs are constantly tested by that interaction. If we come up with a wrong belief about everyday physical reality, we will encounter contrary evidence. If we come up with a belief that implies that airplanes shouldn't be able to fly, we can look up and notice that in fact they do.

The sorts of beliefs that we call exclusively religious (as opposed to, say, beliefs about psychology that we happen to have learned in religious terms) are pretty much those which are not tested by our interactions with everyday reality. That is why they are able to drift so far from one another, from person to person, or culture to culture.

If the likes and dislikes of the gods were as testable as the composition of rocks, then theology would have the degree of consensus that geology does.

Comment author: ShannonFriedman 29 September 2014 05:15:49PM 0 points [-]

I'm not really sure where you are going with this. For one thing, it sounds like we need Viliam to clarify what it is that he was trying to prove in his statement:

"In the world of science, I can reason by the results. My microwave oven works. What is the chance it would work, if we got physics wrong?"

Regarding the rest, you're making a lot of generalizations about religion and religious people, which I don't personally find to be on the same topic that I was speaking about. That said, apparently I was nowhere near as clear as I thought I was in my writing, so I perhaps do not have room to judge about this.

I was talking about the concepts of what you choose personally regarding beliefs/faith/perspectives/point of view. I was not advocating any organizations religious or not, or even speaking much about them. Only personal choices.

Religion is the connection people make when you use the word faith, but I was actually trying to draw different connections, and advocating a deep level of personal understanding rather than accepting anything on faith - be it a religious notion or an atheist one.

Personally I find the more modern things going on in the spiritual communities a lot more interesting than what has been going on in the past few hundred years.

I find that individuals seeking truth get much farther than organizations. Organizations are collections of people, and I find that the multiplication of bias with the interactions of multiple people tends to outweigh the multiplication of the positive attributes of brain capacity. I don't think this will always be true in the future, but I think has been true in most cases to this point.

Comment author: Lumifer 29 September 2014 04:21:21PM 1 point [-]

its certainly a lot less pleasant to have all of the imperfections picked apart than to have the effort and signal appreciated.

A lot less pleasant and a lot more useful.

Comment author: ShannonFriedman 29 September 2014 05:01:24PM 0 points [-]

Depends on the goal.

  1. Its not an either/or. You can give the same feedback that people give here with appreciation. The "ripping apart" style of giving feedback is entirely cultural, and does not add value in and of itself IMHO.

  2. Showing kindness and appreciation does add value, as this is the sort of thing we desire as human beings, and it calms and relaxes people, and thus makes it far easier for people to assimilate the feedback given.

  3. Sometimes getting the feedback that is paired with having things ripped apart on this site is useful. My writing skills have improved greatly from writing on LW, and I did indeed get useful feedback from this, for which I am grateful.

Comment author: RichardKennaway 29 September 2014 12:15:08PM 0 points [-]

To me the conclusion is obvious, but I can see how it is not to people who are not me, now that this has been pointed out to me.

Well then, I would like to point out a more general fact.

Everyone that you will ever deal with, in any way, is someone who is not you.

Comment author: ShannonFriedman 29 September 2014 03:47:02PM 1 point [-]

Umm... why does this need to be pointed out?

To me, I was being nice and empathizing with the point made. This feels like I expressed vulnerability and you decided to sink your teeth in and/or rub my nose in shit to tell me what I've done wrong, except I don't actually understand what you're even trying to show me.

Comment author: Lumifer 29 September 2014 03:25:59PM 1 point [-]

all four of those words are pointing at roughly the same concept

Very VERY roughly. Too roughly for any use, I think. In particular, these words are not interchangeable -- to say that deciding to get out of bed in the morning is a matter of faith is a misuse of the language.

The different people who use the different words generally think that their way of thinking is superior

That's a non sequitur.

illustrate the "everyone is biased" theory

That theory is generally accepted on LW and has people like Kahneman popularizing it in the wide world :-)

The solution I'm alluding to is to be more open minded about what the possibilities actually are.

That's a platitude and a part of all self-help advice since times immemorial. So what else is new?

Comment author: ShannonFriedman 29 September 2014 03:42:21PM 0 points [-]

Yes. My understanding of Less Wrong is that there is a general viewpoint that everyone is biased and people on this site are "Less Wrong." Its not an official viewpoint, but its the attitude I see.

The reason I gave the examples and not the platitude is so that people might actually get it, and not just consider it a platitude that they dismiss. I seem to have failed on this blog at this time :)

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