Do you want to help? Any idea of a test you could give me?
Most tests I could give you would would result in you trying to find the right answer and thus not test intuitive language usage. If you had a corpus of English text you wrote previously you could search it for "try" and get the first X examples. Then why could analyse what you meant with the word try.
But I think I can work with the rest of your post.
This means that I can try my best at something, and you can still try harder, if you have more resources that can be invested.
This suggest that investing more resources mean trying harder.
In cases where investing more resources means that success is less likely that notion of trying harder isn't optimization for a goal.
The woman who's playing hard to get isn't "trying". She isn't investing resources. She might still use the strategy that produces the best results.
In the case of the hypnosis effect of forgetting the numbers, that's not something I can achieve while trying to optimize for it. For me that seminar was a reference experience. I sat there and knew that I can only achieve the goal if I would stop trying to optimize for it. The fact that I really wanted to optimize for it and succeed only made it worse.
Investing resources and optimizing is different from doing what's necessary.
Sometimes "Just be yourself" would be good advice if the answer person could accept it*, because it stops the optimization and the trying that are the biggest problem.
*In practice people can't accept it so it usually isn't effective advice.
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