The "hugs" and "no touching" symbols were visually similar -- a red and a blue circle, overlapping in one case, not overlapping in another case -- maybe some people made a honest mistake. It would be better next time to make visually more different symbols; for example completely different colors, or even a picture of hedgehog for "no touching". I hope that would improve the situation.
By the way, I was somewhat concerned to see the mixed signals of some people wearing both "hugs" and "no touching" symbols; but I wasn't sure whether there was a real damage in doing so, or if I was just making a mountain out of a molehill. Yeah, I received explanations of what that was supposed to mean -- "usually hugs, but always ask first" and "hugs, but no other forms of touching" specifically -- but I still think it would be better to have the "no touching" symbols mean "no touching, ever" only. I get it that people want to express their own message creatively, but by re-using symbols which are supposed to mean something else you dilute the signals used by other people. Just take a pen and use words. Also, "I am a special snowflake, talk to me to find out what I want" should be the default assumption for people who don't wear any of the symbols; not a combination of them. The symbols are social shortcuts designed to overcome the trivial inconvenience of having to ask. They are a useful tool, if used correctly, so please don't break it.
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Done. Though I feel guilty about skipping a few of the more involved questions.