You could try autoaruspicy...
The error bars on the result make this result meaningless. You should, at minimum, also consider how hot/successful she is relative to you (can she do better?) and whether she and you have shared goals (what are her dreams/expectations? are they compatible with yours, and are you both making progress?). It would be extraordinarily improbable for her to forget you overnight, but if she broke up with you she has likely wanted to do better for some time. The usual post-breakup advice is to focus on your own goals for awhile.
1) What error bars? Are you talking about the relative uncertainty of the priors? Because it's assumed that these prior are only my best estimate. You're not saying anything new here.
2) "how hot/successful she is relative to you": I haven't heard of any studies that positively correlate physical appearance and financial success with reduced time to get over a long-term relationship. I admit that it's possible that there's a connection, but as of yet I haven't seen any evidence that would persuade me to include it.
3) "if she broke up with you she has likely wanted to do better for some time." Again, you're making unjustified claims with no evidence to support them.
"The usual post-breakup advice is to focus on your own goals for awhile."
Now this I agree with.
I'm inclined to say that this belongs in an Open Thread, especially as they're posted more often now.
What's an Open Thread and why would this belong there?
bummer, man :) cute post.
Thanks. :)
Oh, I didn't know you broke up.
You explicitly broke up, and your prior for "she's over you" is only 30%?
Also, if she was breaking up, but maybe changing her mind, a 90% chance of answering your call seems too high, but I have no experience with these matters.
Ah. Sorry I didn't make that clear.
Yeah, that particular prior is low at least partly because of my wishful thinking.
Not that it seems to have helped. =/
Evidence ratio of her missing my call: 90%:10% = 9:1
If I assumed this prior I'd have to conclude that I'm over, like, everyone.
She almost never missed my calls.
I don't know why it would be redundant. If she has a certain probability of getting over you every day, and you called her and interacted normally Yesterday, then for it to be 30%, would require that she had a 30% chance of getting over you in a day, before you knew anything about whether she answered your call or not.
I don't trust my accuracy of measurement from the time we broke up until now. The relationship between us has been...uncertain, and her ignoring my calls is the first behavioral cue I can point to and say "Okay, that means there's a good chance she's over me."
The math is correct, but I don't know if those priors are realistic. Particularly the "10%" one. I miss like 50% of calls in general, having nothing to do with who's calling me. And remember that the "probability that she's over me," should be probability that she got over you since the last time you checked.
And remember that the "probability that she's over me," should be probability that she got over you since the last time you checked.
Wouldn't that be redundant?
The math is correct, but I don't know if those priors are realistic. Particularly the "10%" one. I miss like 50% of calls in general, having nothing to do with who's calling me. And remember that the "probability that she's over me," should be probability that she got over you since the last time you checked.
She would always get back to me within a short amount of time when she found out she missed my call. The only times that hasn't happened was when the phone glitched and she was unaware that I'd tried to contact her.
If anything, 10% is a little high.
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Each case is solved by what society seems to have mutually concluded:
That last one was meant as in "he's a player that just met her and so am I."