Meetup : Less Wrong Montreal - Dissolving Disagreements

1 bartimaeus 17 January 2014 05:09PM

Discussion article for the meetup : Less Wrong Montreal - Dissolving Disagreements

WHEN: 22 January 2014 12:08:27PM (-0500)

WHERE: 3459 McTavish, Montréal, qc, ca

There's a question that you may sometimes ask yourselves when you are having an argument with someone: "Wait a minute...what are we ACTUALLY disagreeing about, exactly?" Sometimes, we get so lost in a web of ideas that we've lost track of which way points to reality. We'll be looking at some more 5-second-level mental skills, this time aimed at clarifying what you're discussing and clearing up confusion that can be caused by the way we use words. The human brain has a particular method of classifying things using words; although it does its job very well most of the time, sometimes this classification method just doesn't work. We'll try to recognize situations where words might be confusing us, and how we can fix this. The location worked out well last time, so we'll stick with it for this time. I'll confirm which pod once it's reserved. Here are the instructions as posted last time: Due to construction, you need to: -Enter the McLennan Library (the building on the northeast corner of McTavish and Sherbrooke, street view of the entrance: https://maps.google.com/?ll=45.503599,-73.576131&spn=0.001746,0.004128&t=m&z=19&layer=c&cbll=45.503583,-73.576193&panoid=42_osk2KlEyXwc_eJsOYXQ&cbp=12,143.89,,0,11.22) -Head towards the Redpath library (the building directly north of the McLennan library; so you need to turn right twice right after you walk in) -On the left, there is a door leading towards some stairs (there should be signs for Cybertheque or something similar). Go down one level. -You are now in a library with a bunch of glass "pods" in the middle. We are in POD 4 (the names are on the doors). These directions might be very confusing, so don't hesitate to message me and I'll provide my phone number so you can call me.

Discussion article for the meetup : Less Wrong Montreal - Dissolving Disagreements

Comment author: bartimaeus 12 January 2014 03:52:02PM *  8 points [-]

I run the Montreal Less Wrong meetup, which for the last few months has started structuring the content of our meetups with varying degrees of success.

This was the first meetup that was posted to meetup.com in an effort to find some new members. There were about 12 of us, most of which were new and had never heard of Less Wrong before; although this was a bit more than I was expecting, the meetup was still a really good introduction to Less Wrong/rationality and was appreciated by all those that were present.

My strategy for the meetup was to show a concrete exercise that was useful and that gave a good idea what Less Wrong/rationality was about. This is a handout I composed for the meetup to explain the exercise we were going to be doing. It's a five-second-level breakdown of a few mental skills for changing your mind when you're in an argument; any feedback on the steps I listed is appreciated, as no one reviewed them before I used them. People found the handout to be useful, and it gave a good idea of what we would be trying to accomplish.

The meetup began by going around and introducing ourselves, and how we came to find the meetup. Some general remarks about the demographics:

  • The attendees were 100% male. There were a few women who were going to attend, but cancelled at the last minute.
  • Only two out of the 12 didn't have a background in science. The science backgrounds included math, biology, engineering and others.

After a quick overview of what rationality is, people wanted to go through the handout. We read through each of the skills, several of which sparked interesting discussions. Although the conversation went off on tangents often, the tangents were very productive as they served to explain what rationality is. The tangents often took the form of people discussing situations where they had noticed people reacting in the ways that are described in the handout, and how someone should think in such cases.

The exercise that is described on the second page of the handout was not successful. I had been trying to find beliefs that are not too controversial, but might still cause people to disagree with them. Feedback from the group indicated that I could have used more controversial beliefs (religion, spirituality, politics, etc) as the feelings evoked would have been more intense and easier to to notice; however, that might also have offended more people, so I'm not sure whether that would have been better or not. If I were to run this meetup again, I would rethink this exercise.

The meetup concluded with me giving a brief history of Less Wrong, and mentioning HPMOR and the sequences. I provided everyone with some links to relevant Less Wrong material and HPMOR in the discussion section of the meetup group afterwards.

Let me know if you have any questions or comments, any feedback is appreciated!

New (proposal for) monthly thread: Meetup Reports

17 bartimaeus 12 January 2014 03:50PM

If you had an interesting Less Wrong meetup recently, but don't have the time to write up a big report to post to Discussion, feel free to write a comment here.  Even if it's just a couple lines about what you did and how people felt about it, it might encourage some people to attend meetups or start meetups in their area.

If you have the time, you can also describe what types of exercises you did, what worked and what didn't.  This could help inspire meetups to try new things and improve themselves in various ways.

If you're inspired by what's posted below and want to organize a meetup, check out this page for some resources to get started!  You can also check FrankAdamek's weekly post on meetups for the week.

Tell us about your meetup!

Comment author: Viliam_Bur 23 December 2013 09:24:51AM 8 points [-]

Suggestion: Like the other regular threads we have, I propose a new monthly Meetup Report Thread, where people will describe what happened during their meetups. There are a few meetups every month, so there will always be something to write about. Top-level comments could be the names of the meetups, and below them would be comments related to the specific meetup.

This would overcome some trivial inconvenience. First, writing a comment is easier than writing an article, at least psychologically. Second, comments are allowed to be short. If you only want to describe the meetup in one paragraph, posting an article feels like too much (and we have Discussion cluttered by meetups already), but writing a comment of that length is okay. So you don't have to decide to write a long text to report about the meetup. But if one person writes one paragraph, and another person writes another paragraph or two, then we gradually get some kind of report. People who keep meetup notes publicly outside of LW could use this to post a hyperlink or maybe a short summary.

Not sure how other people feel about it, but I would be more likely to write a comment about a meetup I participated in or organized, than a whole article.

Comment author: bartimaeus 12 January 2014 03:28:24PM 0 points [-]

I like this idea; seeing as I have a meetup report to post, I just started a monthly Meetup Report Thread. Hopefully, people will do what you describe.

Meetup : Montreal - How to Actually Change your Mind

2 bartimaeus 17 December 2013 05:49PM

Discussion article for the meetup : Montreal - How to Actually Change your Mind

WHEN: 07 January 2014 07:00:00PM (-0500)

WHERE: 459 rue McTavish Montreal Quebec Canada

Montreal Less Wrong won't be meeting officially over the holidays due to several of us having busy schedules. However, send me a message on Less Wrong if you want to meet some fellow Less Wrongers over the holidays! In January, we'll be having a meetup intended for newcomers to rationality. We'll look at some concrete 5-second level mental skills that can help us overcome mental obstacles to actually updating on evidence. Here's the description from the meetup.com page: People aren't very good at changing their minds when their ideas are challenged. Have you ever been in an argument with someone, and no matter how much evidence you showed them that they were wrong, they would just become more and more convinced that YOU are the one who's wrong? That is a common human trait called reactance, where trying to get people to change their minds polarizes them in the other direction. That's one example out of several cognitive biases that can prevent us from realizing we're wrong, and this can sometimes have disastrous consequences. We'll take a look at some classic biases that might prevent us from updating our opinions, and try to pin down specific mental skills you can use to fix your thinking and actually update on evidence. Let me know if the date is good with everyone; the venue is subject to change once we have a better idea of how many people we'll be. Hope to see you there!

Discussion article for the meetup : Montreal - How to Actually Change your Mind

Comment author: ChrisHallquist 29 October 2013 04:58:20PM 2 points [-]

I want to like that post, because the formatting is so much tidier than the formatting on my post, but I actually disagree with the first two points. I'm in favor of just rolling with the fact that "Bayesian evidence" isn't what we ordinarily mean by "evidence," as useful as the former is. Also, Eliezer's "I don't know" post misses the pragmatics of saying, "I don't know"; we say "I don't know" if we don't have any information the other person is going to care about (the other person usually won't care that there are 10-1000 apples in a tree outside).

Comment author: bartimaeus 29 October 2013 06:19:56PM 1 point [-]

That's true, those points ignore the pragmatics of a social situation in which you use the phrase "I don't know" or "There's no evidence for that". But if you put yourself in the shoes of the boss instead of the employee (in the example given in "I don't know"), where even if you have "no information" you still have to make a decision, then remembering that you probably DO know something that can at least give you an indication of what to do, is useful.

The points are also useful when the discussion is with a rationalist.

Comment author: bartimaeus 29 October 2013 04:33:47PM 2 points [-]

The post What Bayesianism Taught Me is similar to this one; your post has some elements that that one doesn't have, and that one has a few that you don't have. Combining the two, you end up with quite a nice list.

Meetup : Montreal LessWrong - Return from summer break

2 bartimaeus 26 September 2013 05:49PM

Discussion article for the meetup : Montreal LessWrong - Return from summer break

WHEN: 01 October 2013 06:00:00PM (-0400)

WHERE: McGill University, Montreal, QC, Canada

After taking a break for the summer, Montreal LessWrong is once again going to start meeting up regularly. We'll be moving towards more structured content this time around, based on feedback from members. First meetup will be more meta-level stuff, planning location, times, ideas for meetups and so on. The exact location hasn't been determined yet. Message me and I'll let you know ASAP.

Edit: The meetup will take place in Music - Room A301 (527 Sherbrooke Street West). Message me if you have any difficulty finding it.

Discussion article for the meetup : Montreal LessWrong - Return from summer break

Comment author: diegocaleiro 04 June 2013 02:32:09PM 0 points [-]

I also thought of creating a 4th tree

4)Isn't terribly and obviously inconsistent with the laws of nature

so people could post things they don't actually think work. Is that a good idea?

Comment author: bartimaeus 10 June 2013 02:37:17PM 1 point [-]

I think "seems like a cool idea" covers that; it doesn't say anything about expected results (people could specify).

Comment author: bartimaeus 06 June 2013 06:00:46PM 6 points [-]

I don't see how, because the barriers aren't clearly defined, they become irrelevant. There might not be a specific point where a mind is sentient or not, but that doesn't mean all living things are equally sentient (Fallacy of Grey).

I think Armstrong 4, rather than make his consideration for all living things uniform, would make himself smarter and try to find an alternate method to determine how much each living creature should be valued in his utility function.

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