I say burn this with fire. First comment btw.
I am not good at keeping secrets. I do not enjoy keeping secrets. And they are counterproductive to both the greater good, a rational society, and the glory of Saturn. Excelsior!
Secrets seem necessary for maintaining people's privacy, and privacy seems like it's necessary for thinking clearly.
I think this post is still mostly aligned with your goals, because the status quo is that everyone sort of assumes you can, and are supposed to, keep secrets. The tl;dr of this posts is "have metaconversations about secrecy instead of assuming everyone is has the same assumptions about them".
something something something....the triumph of truth over etiquette....something something something.....complete :)