Thanks. So would you say I am right with the concern about the paper? Or is it fog only for other reasons? [I haven't yet read the link, so I don't yet know what exactly fog in this context means]
I liked the term Computational Kindness a lot! Thanks.
BTW, in the example you give for it and analogous situations it is, in addition, totally inefficient: you know your environment, what is worth visiting/doing and so on, so it is relatively easy to pick the day's program. The visitor, who doesn't know this environment will have a much harder time finding it out. So, it not only "offloads all the effort of coming up with ideas and making decisions to the other person", it greatly increases this effort. I think it is important to note this as well.
Thanks!
In what toddler age span has this worked for your children?
ok. We take our son anyway out of the bet as soon as he wakes up. He sleeps long enough already by himself.
at that point you should just move to something optimized for being easy to get in and out of, like a bed
yes, yes. Exactly. Isn't it much more practical to put her in a bet/mattress on the floor? That's what we do. Just using the mattress from the crib, for example.
Why must she not be able to climb out(/in) of the crib for napping there?
Very interesting!
Obvious question: who wins when the debate is ultra BS Vs ultra BS? Is then the duel back to a rhetoric one?
I'd be really interested in how the kids do in school and in general in their future. It seems to me that they may get really bored, at least at some classes, and this can backfire --it often happens with gifted kids.
when someone does not have the capabilities to face those fears. Even just meditating is dangerous for some people because it makes them face something they are not equipped to face. In order to learn, one must face challenges with the right level of difficulty for them at that point in time. Too easy and there's no learning; too difficult and it is a wall instead of a challenge. If the challenges are psychological or similar, this wall may be something that hurts, only hurts, with no -or minimal- gains.