Phenomenon: A live crab, when slowly boiled, will not climb out of the pot.
This is an analog of a known feature in human cognition: humans are not good at observing small changes. We are good at noticing sharp changes.
In this post, I outline a few anecdotal examples. Then, the phenomenon is applied to outside view, why being yourself in dating can backfire, and slowly deteriorating relationships.
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Example of Boiling the Crab: Disappearing the Statue of Liberty: A magic trick.
There's a famous David Copperfield magic trick that involves disappearing the statue of liberty before a live audience. The magician closes the curtain, behind which the statue of liberty sits. When the curtain... (read 923 more words →)
One strange bug-fix: praying once in a faraway Church in Spain helped daylight some relationship damage I was suffering. I've never been religious and still am not.
This didn't come out of explicitly looking for bugs, but it seemed in keeping with the theme.
This entire project looks very exciting. I hope it yields something life-changing, and I'd love to take part.